theres this guy wh im really attracted to and he told me he's really into me. the only problem is that he met his girlfriend a couple of weeks before he met me and she lives in a different country. he's told me he's really divided about what to do and he doesnt want to cheat on his girlfriend, but he comes over to my house and we drink wine and talk and it feels like were a couple because the sexual tension is unbelievable and we both feel really connected and we talk about really intimate experiences. i dont have many male friends so this is a bit new. is this just a friend thing or does anyone think this could go further.
2007-02-16 06:15:29 · 6 answers · asked by poppettes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
while what he is doing with you is not technically cheating, it is really unfair to his gf. you shoudl not condone this behavior. Just think about how he is with you and remember he is probably the same way with her. Make him choose.
2007-02-16 06:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have come to realise that it is nearly impossible to have friends of the opposite sex with out one time or another to have erotic thoughts about them or even a thought of what it might be like. So its best to have a full relationship with the opposite sex and have to opposite sex friends coz you dont really need any even if they are really ugly coz you dont know how they feel.
Never break a relationship just to make your self happy, seek others unless he breaks up by his own choice, but remember dont do it just for the sex coz soon he might find someone else and someone else will be on yahoo answers asking the same question
2007-02-16 06:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by ibs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wise one say, Blokes will be blokes but if you don't follow that heart of yous one dad you might be billy no husband. Take the time to talk to him over your next glass of wine, dress up a bit if you want, but find out how hot the water is,,,,,good luck...../
2007-02-16 06:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by "THE WISE ONE" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is worried that he may be cheating on his girlfriend with you as his friend then he may like you beyond being a friend, but you have to do the right thing and think will he (not you) be happier with you or her.
2007-02-16 06:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Only time will tell." So either give the matter time or dont. Ur call.
2007-02-16 06:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by loidfish 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go for it girl, you only live once, you both obviously want it so why deny yourselves, if it works so be it, if not so what
2007-02-16 06:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by Chunky 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋