So we had a nice romatic evening planned for Valentine's day. It was really nice, and then when it came to the physical part, things that he would usually do that would turn me on didn't. I didn't really even want him to kiss me. I have been thinking about an ex lately, and can't get him out of my head. Is there a connection??
2007-02-16 06:12:39 · 23 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he doesn't turn you on, then move on!
2007-02-16 06:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you may be have already found an object of your affection (or in this case lust) that isn't your boyfriend... I am not passing any kind of judgment...I am just thinking that perhaps you have found someone other than your man that you find attractive. As a result, the sudden rush of butterflies and excitement from thinking of someone new is lowering your sexual desires for your bf. So the way I see it is that you have 3 choices: 1. Stay with bf but squash any interaction with new person (things should go back to some normality once that person gets out of your system) 2. Leave your bf for new guy. This will leave you feeling torn because you will long for one when you are with the other. So you might have better sex but you may not end up any happier. 3. Break up with bf & be single. This will allow you to clear your head & determine whether or not your still interested in your bf or if it is time to move on to newer pastures. Good Luck!
2016-05-24 07:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are ready to move on. Think about the situation and then talk to your BF about how you feel, express to him that you are not feeling the chemistry anymore. this may be an opportunity for both of u to work on the relationship or part ways. I would not suggest going back to your EX either. Isn't he EX for a reason. Think about that as well before you make your decision. Good Luck!!.
2007-02-16 06:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by fireangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are thinking of your ex because you still have feelings for him. I don't think that the spark is there with this other guy. You may want to set in your room and think long and hard about this one. Cause I really don't know what happened with you and your ex, but you may just want to have some time to yourself right now. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-16 06:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the problem is you're putting your "relationship stock" in the wrong department. Find a guy that you want to be with because he makes you feel like a teriffic person--not because he's good in bed. Trust me...when the emotional aspect of the relationship is in tune, so will the bedroom aspect.
2007-02-16 06:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think if there is anything that has happened recently that would explain your change in feelings. maybe its getting serious with your bf and that scares you. why did you and your ex break up? these are things you should be thinking about. most of all, keep the lines of communication open with your bf.
2007-02-16 06:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there definitely is a connection, you are seeing all the things your boyfriend lacks and your ex has.
2007-02-16 06:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful you realized it now and not later, there is still time to get out of the relationship, be happy in everything that you do.
2007-02-16 06:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you were just distracted but if it keeps happening then I would break up with my bf. It's a lot better then cheating on him and pissing him off.
2007-02-16 06:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe because u dont do what u been doing when u first met him try some new things for him like go get a sexy langere and see what happens
2007-02-16 06:18:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're just bored with the same ol', same ol'. And of course, thinking about your X doesn't help matters. LOL!!!
Good luck with that.
2007-02-16 06:17:45 · answer #11 · answered by Gasman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋