If you really are in love with a guy but aren't into his fetishes? Is it ok not to be?
2007-02-16 06:08:37 · 4 answers · asked by justanotherday 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to get banned from here so won't go into details. It's something though that I'm not comfortable with doing and he really wants it!
2007-02-16 06:16:47 · update #1
If you don't want to do something then by all means, don't! You have to be happy yourself! If he doesn't like the fact that you don't want to, then he can move on and you can also! I think he needs to figure out if he wants you more than his fetish?!
2007-02-16 06:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with someone and he is in love with you then it shouldnt really matter if you share the same fetishes. You can compromise and do something you both like or make it into your " own" time. It really depends on what the fetish is
2007-02-16 14:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by mima23 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think it will ever work out. anytime you have someone with different sexual desires than you and that you are not into, that person isn't just going to forget about them. In todays world, people will not compromise for the other person, they are just too selfish to do so. I once went out with a guy who was into something I wasn't into and I even tried it but did not like it but he kept pressuring me to the point I just dumped him. If you don't give into him he is going to continue to try to get you to do it or he will just go behind your back with someone else. If you arenl't comfortable with something, please don't stay with them.
2007-02-16 14:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I guess the question would be, is he ok that you don't want to? If it's something you don't want to do, for whatever reason, then don't do it! He'll have to decide if he can live with that or not! But there's nothing wrong with not wanting to!!!!!!!
2007-02-16 14:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by just another dudette 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋