My little cousin took his own life about a month ago. We all knew he was in some trouble. How can a family deal with hearing his ways of being with his friends now that he is gone. Should you be mad at him for being the way he was or should one just pray that his soul is at ease? Now that his enemies know he is gone..they sort of destroyed his memorial we had for him. How does a family deal with this? Does anyone know?
2007-02-16 06:07:13 · 4 answers · asked by Shorty06 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
honest ,it take lot of time to heal the lost,an just pray for his soul, as for as the gang,, goes ...rember they will in the end get what comeing to them
2007-02-16 07:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your heart you deal with it, and as a family. Meet together once in a while in his memory for dinner at your house or a relatives and discuss the happy times with him. Know that he was obviously in need of something in his life that made him fill the void by going into a gang. But what's done is done and deep inside he must have had some good because he ultimately felt bad guilt over it and killed himself. Good luck
2007-02-16 06:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had some similiar occurrences when I lived in Los Angeles in the late 80s/ early 90s. My sister got messed up with a real bad gang and they killed her for trying to get away from them. I was really angry and now I live in another country because I wiped out 3 whole gangs in a 1 nite.
2007-02-17 14:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Randy R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Im no longer a believer in faith or afterlife..despite the fact that i used to be. " Um nicely than what do you like human beings to assist you to recognize. My certainty is the religious certainty and scientific certainty. All you have is the scientific certainty. Your mom is ineffective and likely by ability of now decomposing in the floor in accordance to environmental circumstances of the place you reside. you're dreaming approximately her because of the fact the synapses on your concepts that have memory of your mom remains good. in case you so ensue to get Alzheimer's you will lose them. in case you get a head harm you would be able to lose them, yet you would be able to earnings them lower back, or you by no ability will. Your hugging of your mom is an phantasm and the thank you to self convenience your self, bear in concepts your mom is ineffective. provide up thinking approximately ineffective human beings, advantageous have thoughts you are able to not do away with them by ability of decision, yet bear in concepts what your mom did for you. "How can i eventually be in peace together with her loss of life?" human beings die that's all, your mom is not any exception ____ Sorry for being blunt, yet do no longer lower back song on your new got here across wisdom only because of the fact somebody is ineffective. you are able to not be on the two sides of the fence just to examine your emotional desires.
2016-11-23 13:24:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋