my ex broke up with me for this other girl almost 6 months ago, and i have tried to be a good person and forget about it and still maintian a friendship with him even while part of the time still in love with him....but everytime we start to be friends and can talk again he freaks out and cusses me adn tells me he never wants to speak to me again. My friends say its because he still loves me but when i ask him he denied it. I dont want him back or anything like that ive spent to much time getting over him i just want to know what his problem is, why me and him being friends makes him so unhappy and why it bothers him so much. Any ideas...
2007-02-16 06:05:12 · 11 answers · asked by punkrockerchick_89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him alone. It sounds like you are bothering him and he doesn't want to be around you.
2007-02-16 06:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will only know if you ask him. If he doesn't give you a direct anwer, I say remove yourself from him. Sounds like it is causing you some concern and pain to stay in communication with him, because your feelings are lingering. It's hard to hear/do this, but you may need to stop speaking with him. He may be playing some kind of game (sounds like he is) and you never know, it may just serve to ease some kind of insecurity he has to keep you around, push you away, then have the satisfaction of seeing you come back (even if it's only in a 'friends' capacity... though he may suspect you still have feelings for him and this may feed his ego...) See what I mean? Ask him, and if you don't like the answer or he is vague, move on. You can make other, better friends and leaving this friendship will help you get over your feelings for him.
2007-02-16 06:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The new girlfriend may feel theartened by you and him being friends and may have made it known to him. If this is the case he may feel torn between the new relationship and your friendship. He may not have the heart to tell you, so he might be acting nasty towards you so that you will back off without telling you. He sounds very immature and trust me he's not worth your time, worry, and stress.
2007-02-16 06:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the most likely reason is because his current girlfriend might get pissed off if you two hung out so much. I know my girlfriend would hate me talking to my ex that i cheated on to go out with my current girlfriend. Another reason might even be that he feels guilty about what he did to you, or quite possibly that he still loves you.
2007-02-16 06:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you made the wrong move if you and your boyfriend broke up you should never be his friend no thats not right that 's why he continuing to do that. the problem is you to still love each other and ya'll still need the space thing but you callin him talking about friendship and that kind of stuff so thats why he cursing you
2007-02-16 06:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by zorin l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is ok girl.. i know strong enough to move on with this love.. coz he the one who always hurt u and that kind of practice that make u stronger.. so move on.. forget about him.. get a life and get rid of him.. stop calling and make out some friends.. ok.. u just lost the one who does not love u anymore.. but he lost the one who really love him..
2007-02-16 06:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by Andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even be friends with him. He doesn't still love you like your friends say. Would someone who loved you treat you like that. Why would you want to be friends with a guy who treats you like crap. Move on. You're better than that.
2007-02-16 06:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, MOst people never know the true reason why people break up with them.
You cant force it on him, he left you for another girl, he is with another girl now, so dont bother him and leave him alone.
Focus on yourself and meet other people.
2007-02-16 06:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say stay away for a while if he cares enough and really wants to be your friend hell wonder why you've disappeared,and when he asks why you haven't talked to him tell him that you don't like the way he treats you and wont tolerate it.if he cares enough to be your friend hell stop!!!
2007-02-24 05:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. It sounds like you are bothering him and he doesn't want to be around you.
2007-02-16 06:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by William C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋