I am scared.
How do I know I made the right choice?
We have dated off and on for 6 years. We broke up in 2005,in 2006 he started dating someone else and it hurt me bad. He threw it up in my face and always took up for her. I begged and begged him to come back and he told me no.
In the summer of 2006 we got back together, and I found him talking to her again and broke up with him. We got back together once again, and moved in together.
On Jan 1st, I found out she had been calling him. I kicked him out. He knew how much I disliked her and I told him how much it hurt me. He says now,he will change, he doesn't want her or no one, I am the only one. He wants to make me happy. I want to find out - if there is someone who will treat me better, I think. I love him, but I am tired of getting hurt.
He told me today, I am treating him like crap, that him and her were just friends nothing was going on, and why won't I give him 1 more chance? Am I doing the right thing by not going back?
2007-02-16 06:01:19 · 5 answers · asked by baby_rost 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you are doing the right thing by not taking him back because if you continue to take him back he gone be like oh she want me everytime i break up with her she juss gone take me back so you should find somebody who gone love you for you not jump from one to the next ho or when the other girl mad he come to you no that ain't kool at all so you should continue to treat him that way and when he start kissin yo butt and beggin you will you take him back bring up all the crap he put you through and if he really loved you he really would change but i believe he juss don't know what he want right now but you juss continue to leave your life and the LORD juss might send you what you looking for
2007-02-16 06:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by zorin l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not treating you very well - and I think you deserve better. With an on-off relationship you tend not to know where you stand. He's making you feel guilty. He also wants you because he can't have you. You may think you love him because you've been with him, but after a week or so you'll realise how much he was walking over you. Good luck, hope you find a decent guy :)
2007-02-16 06:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by hollywoodhx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't look back. When you have the impulse to forgive him once again just start thinking about what he did and it will put you back in line again. I know that it is hard to let go of the people that you love and want to be with but we need to put ourselves first on big things like this. I am somewhat going thru the same thing as you today. What dosen't kill you will make you stronger. You can email me anytime if you need support.
2007-02-16 06:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't seem strong together, it seems he'll never stop talking to this girl so just leave him. i'm sure you'll find someone else
2007-02-16 06:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by Emily Simmons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!!! Plenty of fish in the sea!!
2007-02-16 06:04:42 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋