Alright, so lately I've been dealing with some jealousy troubles. I have these female friends and they all now have boyfriends since recently, two of which I've felt feelings for in the past (the girls I speak of). I felt for them in the past, but it could never work because of the age difference, which still breaks my heart today. Anyway, now that they have boyfriends, I feel I'm pretty much the only single one among all of them. I'm feeling a strong sense of jealousy coming on here. Although it couldn't of worked between us, the least I got out of the friendship was affection, and affection is better than nothing from them at this point to me. So now that they have boyfriends, the affection is pretty much gone, and I really hoped deeply for them to stay single. So now I don't know where to go, what to do to feel right again. I wish I could do something about this, but it's not like I'm gonna go sabatosh a relationship. I wish something would give here.
2007-02-16 06:00:19 · 3 answers · asked by Bruce 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the way you talk there is no way for your relationships to go forward with these 2 girls so why cant you be happy for them ? why dont you get out there and start dating and then you will feel better about what you are doing. and stop being selfish you knew deep down in side they wouldnt stay single all thier lives just because they cant have you life doesnt stop. its not all about you all the time
2007-02-16 06:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you are going through this but look. I am the friend on the other end of this conversation. Not literally i have no clue who you are but my situation is almost identical to yours. I'm telling you if you want to be her friend back off. I have a friend that is older than me. i made the mistake of going back on what i said and slept with him. now while i'm having other relationships he's c*ck blocking. I hate to hurt his feelings because every time another guy calls me his whole attitude changes. But we are not and never will be in a relationship. If you don't figure out how to see her with other people your friendship is going to be finished. no one wants to feel pressured into a relationship and that's how she's going to end up feeling and that will cause her to distance herself from you. I can also tell you that if you make it seem like the affection is all your after then she'll think that's what your friendship was about it the first place and she'll still distance herself from you. maybe you should take a break from her to reevaluate the situation before you make your friendship unrepairable.
2007-02-16 06:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by kaluah96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your girlfriends are dating now, it doesn't mean the world is over. You can go out and make new friends who will have time for you. What you are jealous isn't about them having boyfriends, you just need attention. Go out and have some fun, call some old friends and spend time with your family if anything. Try not to sit there moping around because they are out with there boyfriends. Friendship will never die... so just be understanding and let them have there romance, someday you will have yours
2007-02-16 06:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by mima23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋