me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months and he wants to have sex.i love him but i am a virgin and i am curoius about sex should i have sex with him now? or wait for later?
2007-02-16 05:57:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's really up to you,girl.
If you want to do it now or take it slow first.
It really depends... maybe if you're ready for it then go & have a responsible sex & you should know it.
2007-02-16 06:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Accept that it will be disappointing if you do. VERY few women have really good sexual experiences under the age of 20 or so.
2. Also, very few women have really good sexual experiences the first time, or first few times, at any age.
3. When it comes to intercourse, make NO compromises about safety. He'll be very lucky if he gets laid at all. ;) Some of the dangers in oral sex are more theoretical than real (which is one VERY good reason to start in that area), but in any form of intercourse, they're very real.
4. Sex is a LOT better with communication. But be positive. "I'd really like to try X" is good. "That's boring" is bad. "Ouch! Please do that more slowly." is good. "Ouch! Please don't do that." is bad, unless it's necessary. "No! That's disgusting!" is bad. "I really don't think I'd like to do that right now." is fine.
2007-02-16 15:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋