My ex and I were together for 6 wonderful months, well we had some fights but we always got over them and were really happy together. He broke up with me 2 weeks ago and Ive been trying to get him back since. I've tried to acting like you dont care, and he gets really jealous of the guys I hang out with. He has told me he still loves and misses me. On Valentines day he had sex with me and told me he thought we should give it another shot, only the next day he took it back. then told me he still loves me and misses me, and he told me we couldnt be together. he'll screen my calls and i'm so confused. Help!
2007-02-16 05:57:05 · 14 answers · asked by marie m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he needs some time to figure out what he really wants. You have to make it clear to him that if he wants a relationship with you, it has to be all the time and not just when he wants to have sex, and if he doesnt want it all the time, then you have to tell him that the 2 of you cant have sex anymore. The best thing to do is to tell him that is hard for you to see him and be around him and that you need time apart from him. Then when he realizes how much he cares about you and that he cant stand being apart from him, then he will realize that he is making a mistake. I have witnessed this happen to a friend of mine, and she made her ex realize how much he missed her, and two weeks later he was begging her to take him back. Now they are madly in love with each other.
"If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were."
2007-02-16 06:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by chad m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 03:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt care he only using u for sex see the bigger picture. Go beyond being blind.Really Im in the same situation he kept playin ...back and forth...back and forth...He could never make up his mind. I let it go afer a while. But then I found out I was pregnant u think he cares. No. He told me hes not the baby daddy. He young, has a child but there are things in his past that prevent him from having a relationship. He jealous and controlling. Leave it alone...itll only end in your broken heart dont take that risk.
2007-02-16 06:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like the case of; " I don't want you, but I don't want anyone else to have you eitheritis". I know you probably really like him. IMO, you had only been with him 6 months, and it is apparent you both had a different experience in the relationship, I mean he broke it off with you. I would let the past be the past and wouldn't have anything to do with him anymore, forget that fact that he gets jealous of you dating other people that fact is, he doesn't want you. He only wants to have sex with you, that is it.
2007-02-16 06:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sista, he just play you for some sex, been there, stop sweating
him. he knows that you love him so much and use it against
you. you are in denial he want sex not love, he dosen,t really
care nothing of you. sit down by yourself and just think on
what i am saying remember that you beautiful and should
not be shortchange you need be with someone who is love
you all of you don,t settle for less than what god can give you
it is not a fairy tale to have happily ever after, people who
do say either there still hurt or gave up on love and
MOST IMPORTANT LOVE YOU and if a man see that
then he Will have no choice but to respect you,because
when you love yourself you tolerate nothing that,s beneath you
and girl he is beneath you when you heal you will see and
remember what i said and laugh to yourself.
2007-02-16 06:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just used to for sex on Valentine's Day. Drop him like a bad habit. 6 months is no time to get to really know someone. Move on to bigger and better things!
2007-02-16 06:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let this one go. i know thats not what you want to hear, but you'll be better off in the long run. you don't "take back" feelings like that. did you sleep with him before or after he said you should "give it another shot"? i'm not trying to be cruel but wake up & move on you WILL find happiness & not with a looser like him. Good Luck.
2007-02-16 06:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by tire chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a confused psycho freak. Let him go and find somebody normal.
2007-02-16 06:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget this loser. he doesnt know what he wants and just keeps stringing you along liek its just a game to him. Next time he tells you he loves you adn misses you just tell him to bad you broke up with me now deal with it and start getting on with your life.
2007-02-16 06:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by punkrockerchick_89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing games.
Do you like being a piece in a game?
2007-02-16 06:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by baby_rost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋