I have been seperated for about 2mths because he told me that he fell out of love with me/ but we are still somewhat friends and civil due to our two children. Sometimes we even reminise how good it was and talk about some old pictures. I still care about him and he recently has been looking at me very diferently in a caring way. However, he asked me to go out to dinner and he told me to dress nice because he's wearing a suit. He said i'ts to have an important long talk about our situation. We have never done that. I would like some suggestions please
2007-02-16 05:54:39 · 5 answers · asked by shortie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We were together for 10 yrs but without being married
2007-02-16 06:56:15 · update #1
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2007-02-16 05:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by wassup 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl wear something hot!!!!
He's seeing you in a new light and chances are the "spice" that use to be there when you two first got together needs to be re-awakened. Couples often give up their own "special time "because of kids and work.
Listen to what he says and share your thoughts. Maybe suggest dating each other for a period of time, "without sex" if he wants to work on the relationship. If it progresses to him moving back in make sure you two still go on dates and have a time just for the two of you.
Best Wishes!!!!!
2007-02-16 14:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by Atropabelladonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people get the wrong definition of what love should be in a marriage. It sounds like he would like to work it out. I don't believe he fell out of love with you. I think the marriage spark just died down and needs a new flare. Marriages advance to different levels too. You both need to know where to go next with it.
Get yourself fixed up really nice and go to that dinner. If there's a chance of saving your marriage and keep your family together, talk it over with him and maybe you both can find out what the problem really is.
2007-02-16 14:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would definitely go and see what hes wanting to talk about. you still care about him and if he looks at you in a caring way, he obviously still cares about you. he may be wanting to work things out. i would go and talk to him and see how things go. good luck
2007-02-16 13:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by sasha_miller_2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go mabye he wants to talk about the relationship and get back 2gether
2007-02-16 13:59:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋