he is right and i know my mistakes and i need anither chance to show it to him. it pains a lot of losin him and i already miss him. he send m a msg after i left that he loves me but its just inly one thing that bothers him...my jealusy. pls tell me what can i do to get him back pls
2007-02-16 05:49:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A good relationship worth a million. Make every effort to restore it. Put an end to your jealusy. Some greatest kigdoms came to an end becaseu of jealusy. Be open, trust others, measure others just as you measure yourself, don't anticipate -vely all the time, be constructive and happy all the time. Go to your friend and make every effort to convince him that you love him a lot.
2007-02-16 06:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by pkeleti72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it seems you are in the same boat as I am. Or at least I can say: I was.
Jealousy is a verydelicate subject in a relationship. Too much of it could kill and none of it could kill too.
In order to get over it I suggest that you dig deep inside you and look for the reasons behind it. ask youself:
1- What am I jealous about?
2- When do I feel jealous?
3- Did he do anything to make me jealous?
By thinking and identifying the source you can find a solution. Then you need to have an honest talk to him: he might be doing something that drives your jealousy. It's an effort from both of you.
It is not easy what you are going through and believe me, I know... I've been there. But I can tell you this: There is a way.
To get him back you need to acknowledge to him that you need his help to get over it. You need him, you love him and you want to go the extra mile to trust him.
Let me know how it goes.
2007-02-16 13:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jay C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to work on your jealousy problem. What are some things you can do to not be jealous? Seeing as you two have been dating for a while, there's a lot of trust between you two. So why be jealous? Also, know that if you become jealous you two might break up again.
Instead of being jealous, express your love to him in words and seek relief in his. (ie. You: I feel like I'm jealous about you going to the concert with your girl friend. Him: It's okay, you don't need to worry about anything. I love you.) And be content with that. Ask him for another chance.
2007-02-16 13:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by pertinential 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel there are reasons to be jealous? How jealous do you become. Instead of taking off, or breaking up because of jealousy, is there a way you two could get together in a peaceful, rational way and discuss the differences of how you two individually react?
I have always believed that running away from an issue, in a relationship, leaves little chance to make it healthier.
2007-02-16 13:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by skydancerwi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him that you are sorry for your behaviour. Let him know that you love him so much that you can't bear him with any other lady inspite of your trust on him. Ask him to help you get out of this feeling. I'm sure he would understand. You can get yourself intoduced to the ladies around him. That would put you in some sort of comfort zone...
:-)
2007-02-17 13:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a big part of relationships, especailly long term. Trust him tell him that you trust him. Just because he has female friends doesnt mean he is sleeping with all of them!
There is nothing more annoying then a partner being accusatory all the time. My boyfriend is like that and I hate it, but we've discussed it and he is slowly getting better about it.
2007-02-16 13:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Aurora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of jealousy, if not all of it, is distrust in your partner. Otherwise you wouldn't like it if another woman was hitting on him but you wouldn't get all jealous because you would trust him to be faithful. Work on this or no relationship you have will be healthy and happy.
2007-02-16 13:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by A M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sees your jealousy as an effort to control him. So don't chase him. Back off. Tell him someday maybe he can see that you have matured. Keep in touch but don't talk about lovin hima and wanting to get back together. Show him you are secure with him having his space.
2007-02-16 13:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy seems to be more prominent in women. And they seem to like it, when they are around other gals man they may try flirting to create jealousy.
I dont understand this but have experienced it in past, its weird and wrong just learn to drop it else you are going to have a miserable life.
2007-02-17 01:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by funnysam2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him and SHOW him that you want him to be yours but u cant totally stop his life and make him spend time with u every flippin second!! that would drive me crazy!! let him go out with the guys and let him talk to gurl just like friends! and then if it gets to like serious talk between him and a gurl thewn u can get mad!! but not just talking friendly! and to get him bak send hima bizzillion flowers and a note saying : for the love of my life that i hope not to loose!
2007-02-16 13:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by sierrasaysyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋