My girlfreind has a good job and I am currently unemployed. I do all of the housework and shopping. Lately she has been more bossy and always tells me what to do while criticizing my work. I always have to run errands for her, fetch things for her, and clean up after her. Recently she told me that she wears the pants and I should wear panties. Whenever I try to argue my point she threatens to kick me out. I like my girlfreind but dont know how to handle her. What should I do?
2007-02-16 05:48:06 · 22 answers · asked by timmy h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're gonna take a beatin' soon
2007-02-16 05:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by jojonjesse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get a freaking JOB already!!! No matter what it is, even working cleaning the floors. A job is a job. She should respect that. If she makes fun of it, just tell her you will find a better one as soon as possible, but to respect the fact you are working and trying to contribute to the house.
If she keeps on treating you like that, then leave her, because she has an attitude problem. Unless you find a better job to shut her up, you would no option unless you want to wear her panties if you know what I mean.
Regardless, make sure to talk to her now also and make her respect also the fact that you stay home doing everything you can instead of being a lazy one in the couch. She should appreciate that too.
2007-02-16 05:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your living with someone and a situation comes that one of the persons will not be working for awhile they need to sit down and talk out it( who is going to do what).My husband and I have been together for 11 years and I've been out of work for a little over a year and until I get another job I agreed to do all housework but not be his SLAVE. This is something that you definitely need to talk about, because it looks like this situation has gone to her head.
2007-02-16 06:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by pandabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now that is getting a little out of hand..you should sure enough of yourself to stand up for yourself, don't let her rule your life..get a job so if she threatens to kick you out you can say that you are capable enough to take care of yourself and live on your own...under those conditions..i would think twice as where this relationship stands..there is no need for her to be bossy toward you when you help in any way you can around the house...
2007-02-16 05:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by red_klinik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your girlfriend loves you its just that she has all this weight to carry and she may feel she still wants to look her best for you but how can she if shes doing all the work... just be more supportive and tell her shes doin a great job and that you love her alot... if shes still like that when u get bak on ur feet... then shes controling...
2007-02-16 05:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no is to no longer lots. she is working u have unfastened time is glaring that u could make your self handy now and then. is sturdy that she facilitates you to purchase her outfits because of the fact which ability she trusts your type and she or he's conscious youll p.c.. some thing staggering. is a sturdy ingredient. female products so what. purchase tampons or some kotex dude, any woman would be satisfied to have a guy that is conscious her and facilitates her even in the greater intimate and private issues. my female buddy says that she loves me lots because of the fact i communicate over together with her approximately her issues. she talks approximately her era and how she is feeling and it doesnt disgust me. is a sturdy thank you to bond. dont difficulty, paying for those issues doesnt make you much less of a guy, it makes you a greater loving existence companion.
2016-11-23 13:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by nanhey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some self respect and let her know your the man of the house, no women or man should treat the one they are suppose to love that way...you might have to think seriously about staying in your relationship...I hope for your sake that she has more good points than bad, ''why you allow her to treat you this way''
2007-02-16 06:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her. the fact that you let go on for so long means that she now thinks that you don't care about what she says or do. you HAVE to grow some balls and tell her where you stand!! i know its not easy but find a job, be independent because she now know that because ou need her more than she needs you, she can do what she likes. kick her a** to the curb!!
2007-02-16 05:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by Nadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuuuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmmm yes she is to controlling she is acting more like a mother than a girlfriend and you need to get out and find a job and move on or do as "mom says"
2007-02-16 05:52:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go out and get a job? Then next time she says something tell her that you work too.
2007-02-16 05:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your panties on and accept it or find a flippin job and quit being such a p u s s y
2007-02-16 05:51:48 · answer #11 · answered by Paul M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋