I'm a women who can take or leave sex. I don't dislike but it's not something I need and often feel disappointed after the event. In my experience men have always seemed to get more out of the act. Can any other women (or men) give their views on this?
2007-02-16 05:45:37 · 19 answers · asked by sammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Same here. Although the enjoyment is there, can hardly be bothered beforehand.
2007-02-16 05:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by lulu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your story is way too long so I skimmed and this is your problem...you paid $11,000 for good sex from your fiance now wife and didn't get it? So you are a glorified John? If the sex was blah before what makes you think it would be better just because you shelled out extra money for it? Honeymoons are for sex but also for touring around or laying in the pool or doing things together. Sorry you feel you got robbed in the situation but your expectations seemed quite high.
2016-05-24 07:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have just not found the right lover yet. Don't give up, because when you find him, you will be blown away. Of all my sexual escapades, I have probably been with only two men that have really made me appreciate sex. The rest varied from boring to decent to irritating or just plain disgusting. I'm not saying become a whore, just don't lose hope that when you find someone you love and feel very passionate about, the sex will be incredible.
2007-02-16 05:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by me! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is there to be enjoyed not only by the male but also by the female sadly though there are some who are only out for there on needs and thus spoiling it for their partner and I'm ashamed it is usually the guys that are fault sex should not just be sex but love and when it is love for each other then it will truly be enjoyed
2007-02-16 05:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by weebobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel that way, until I got a little older. I think you just haven't had the right pleasant experience yet. Once you do, you'll probably start to appreciate it more.
You should experiment with some sex toys, it's a good way to try out different stuff!
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2007-02-17 08:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd always prefer to have a cake rather than sex. Its all hyped up out of proportion. After all, a big cake could last up to 5 minutes, but sex lasts 12.5 seconds, if you'e lucky.
2007-02-16 05:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it!
I didn't when I was going through a rough time with my ex, that was because I didn't like HIM.
I'm now with someone I love deeply and he does me too, and our sex life is brilliant, and showing no signs of fading.
So perhaps as yet, you've not been doing it with the right person.
:-)
2007-02-16 05:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way. when i have a one night stand/casual sex i always feels disgusted or dissapointed. but when i go home to my wife and make love to her i feel wanted and ready to give more. sex is just sex but nothing can replace the act of true love.
2007-02-16 06:15:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you must be with the wrong guy! You need to find one that isn't just thinking of pleasing himself! And hurry, before you hate sex for life!
2007-02-16 05:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by just another dudette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not be with a man that cares more about making sure you are getting yours then him getting his. If you were getting yours you would love sex and want it a lot. When I was first married it took me a long time to learn what works to get mine, this drove my husband crazy since he was experienced and couldn't stand it that he couldn't please me. Once we figured out what worked I couldn't get enough and neither could he.
2007-02-16 05:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by A M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think I'm at my prime right now. I feel like a teenager again. I often find myself thinking about me and my husband being intimate and I get goose bumps.
2007-02-16 05:50:55 · answer #11 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋