Girls, does treat them mean, keep them keen work?

You are living in cloud cuckoo land. Most girls would tell you to sling your bloody hook, and they would be right.-10pts.

2007-02-16 06:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋

I'm friends with this girl and I'm pretty sure she just likes me as a friend, but I want more. If I stop trying too hard (approaching her instead of her approaching me) and start to avoid her(let her approach instead), will this increase my chances with her?

2007-02-16 13:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by truesoldier4ever 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋

Oh grief, I hate this trick. There are loads of guys in this world you are having to compete with. Acting like you're not interested will just give the girl a reason to look to someone else. Personally I never go for a guy who backs off. I get a lot of male attention anyways, besides, a guy who plays games, is not the type of guy I'd want to date.

I prefer guys who are honest and act like a real man.

2007-02-16 15:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Definitely, But DO NOT avoid her for too long. It could backfire. I suggest you should first be there for her a lot the all the sudden pretend to like one of her close friends She'll miss the friendship and confuse the feeling for jealousy than love. It's worked many times for me.

2007-02-16 14:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by Stephen G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Depends on the person you are going to be mean to and how they would take it , tread very carfully, as nice is always going to be the outright winner.
Although you may be trying a little too hard . Relax more in your approach (stand back a bit) and let her do a little of the chasing but not too much, if its going to happen it will.
GOOD LUCK................

2007-02-16 13:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by patsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

If you won the affections of a girl by ignoring her and treating her meanly then she probably wouldn't be the kind of girl you want to have a long-term relationship with. She'd be into playing games and/or insecure.

But I'm not an expert on girls. I only know what works for me. If I were attracted to you and you made me feel special and were honest about how you felt about me I would definitely be interested in dating you. If you ignored me and treated me rudely, I probably would not want to be friends with you anymore and I certainly wouldn't consider being romantic with you.

2007-02-16 13:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by luvbichons 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Women want confident men. If you are desperate, they can smell it...

A desperate man will latch on to the first thing that comes his way. Women want to believe that you picked them over any other woman you could have had.. That is why they date assholes, they mistake indiference for confidence.

You need to go on dates to figure out what it is you are looking for. Only through dating expereince are you going to know what you will put up with and what you wont...

And no, don't treat women mean. That's just plain stupid...

So get out there and date. If she is interested in you, she'll let you know.

Good luck.

A~

2007-02-16 14:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋

NO. Girls love it if you come on strong. They like to feel loved, and don't tend to run away from commitment.
Seriously, if you avoid her, it will not work. Much better to just ask her out. Even if she hasn't thought about it before, she'll probably be flattered.

2007-02-16 18:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by Lyra B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

if you want more. tell her. and be prepared for a rejection . you may be surprised if she want more too. just state at the start you understand if she just wants to be friends, then she has an escape route and either of you wont be embarrassed.gud luk

2007-02-16 13:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by heavymetalbitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋

yes to a cetain degree it doe's work but dont over do it. if u see her dont stop just smile and look away

2007-02-16 13:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by SHY1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Girls, does treat them mean, keep them keen work?

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