Was kinda dating this girl for about a month. She lives in my apt. building right above me. never made a move but went over to visit alot. we were having good time, doin dinner and all. then a week ago i went over and her attitude was completely different. figured she had a bad day and went over the next day. still acted like she was annoyed i was there. (described this in a previous question) So after that i stopped goin over there. When i see her around i keep conversations short and superficial. She seems to do the same. Did i go over too much and end up botherin her? Should i continue to ignore her when i see her? or try to get back in the zone by trying to talk to her? or should i just leave it alone and move on? i really liked her and am confused as to what happened all of a sudden.
2007-02-16 05:36:14 · 10 answers · asked by LawDude 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and no i dont think it was a pms weekend for her. i have gotten that answer before but i dont think it was because she still acts annoyed to see me when she does.
2007-02-16 05:37:31 · update #1
yeah sorry the question is probably confusing. i meant that i was taking her out to dinner, not that she was making me dinner.
2007-02-16 05:45:08 · update #2
Keep doing what you're doin. Stay cordial and informal. Ask some questions about what has been going on in her life. See if it might be a problem she hasn't shared.
After a bit, you definitely need to move on, however.
2007-02-16 05:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was kinda dating this girl for about a month. She lives in my apt. building right above me. never made a move but went over to visit alot. we were having good time, doin dinner and all. then a week ago i went over and her attitude was completely different. figured she had a bad day and went over the next day. still acted like she was annoyed i was there. (described this in a previous question) So after that i stopped goin over there. When i see her around i keep conversations short and superficial. She seems to do the same. Did i go over too much and end up botherin her? Should i continue to ignore her when i see her? or try to get back in the zone by trying to talk to her? or should i just leave it alone and move on? i really liked her and am confused as to what happened all of a sudden.
2007-02-16 13:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by truesoldier4ever 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is gonna hurt, but...honesty is the best policy..just go ask her, honestly, Did I upset you some how? Don't be on the defense from the get go and she shouldn't blow up or any thing. It could be that you are mis-reading her. This would give you both a chance to clear the air so that even if you don't start dating again, it won't be so awkward to talk to her in the hall. hope it helps!
2007-02-16 13:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doepents what you said to her that pushed a button, or maybe she's mad that you didn't really ask her out as a couple...rather than friends..did u pull any moves on her like a kiss? something was said wongly if that's the point.
2007-02-16 13:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by beautywarrior_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's talking to someone else. just ask her if you have offended her in some way. she then has an open door to be completely honest about her feelings & then you'll know if you should move on.
2007-02-16 13:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by tire chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lay off of her, but continue to say hi. Invite her to a movie or something.
Good Luck.
2007-02-16 13:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send her a friendly card and ask to take her out for dinner, see if she answers you!
2007-02-16 13:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by jojonjesse 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you overstayed your welcome with out asking her if she would like to come to your place for dinner once in awhile. She might have felt like you were using her to save on your food bill.
2007-02-16 13:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might just be a T W A T!
2007-02-16 13:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by Birdy is my real name 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and ask her if there's a problem
2007-02-16 13:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋