Please Help me!
2007-02-16 05:35:56 · 38 answers · asked by Alex B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then don't do it. It is much more fun to wonder the rest of your life what she may have said.
2007-02-16 05:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by jjayferg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is you get rejected? She is not the only girl in the world.
Trust me, I was like that long time ago. But I have learned it. Now I can pick up any girl any time (except that I am married now, so no more fun for me… LOL).
Just be yourself, relax, go talk to her, and just ask her out to the movies or something. If she likes you somehow (or a lot) she will of course say yes. If she doesn’t like you, then it depends, she might go with you, but probably invite someone else (sign she is not interested in you romantically), or tell you that another day, or something like that. Or she might just say no, and be over with it.
If she says no, just be cool, and say “oh that’s ok, you are so beautiful that I had to ask you, thanks…” and just go away with a smile. You never know, she might like you to have a good attitude about things and tell you to wait… I have seen it happen!
One last thing, whenever you go out with a new girl, do not start anything “sexual” at all! No matter what! And if she is the one that gets into that territory, just follow the flow at the beginning. She might be testing you. But don’t be an idiot either.
Good luck and go ask her!
2007-02-16 05:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since this person is in class with you, you probably hear her talk about things she does or places she goes. Just pay a little more attention next time and find out where she will be. Then just casually show up. You can go up to her, say hi, and start a conversation. That way you never have to worry about rejection and you can ask her out after you find out if she is interested. If things work out, you can always tell her how you "happened to run into each other." She will think you went out of your way to spend time with her.
2007-02-16 05:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by jalynnmay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you spend your life avoiding new people and new experiences because you fear rejection, you're going to be missing out on a lot of fun stuff. We all experience rejection at some time or other, and we all reject things or people as well. But we get over it. Suck it up....ask her out. If she says no, go ask someone else. If she says yes, then have a good time getting to know her.
2007-02-16 05:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw a party or have some cool event planned where there are multiple people involved and invite her. you will get points for hosting the event. get close to her by this means. If she is available just tell her that you think the two of you could have alot of fun together... wanna hang out sometime? dont be too blunt... if you are and she denies you the fall could be hard. if you act like its no big deal you just wanna hang out then if she says no its cool mabey some other time. after you hang out for a while you will know when the time is right to ask her or a real date.
2007-02-16 05:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by lankford01102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, we're the ones who always and supposedly fear of rejection!
Just ask her --- there's no terrible thing that would happen other than disappointment for not ask her out.
Let's say you afraid she'll reject you afterwards --- then you shy away from her and feeling guilty to yourself. Then, in a sudden shock of the next day, you find her being with a jerk who's unattractive and way far worse than you in terms of everything!
What would you feel about it? Imagine this and your fear for it will encourage and lead you to ask her out ~ who knows she feels the same as you?
2007-02-16 05:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by PossumNight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...why don't you look at it this way:
If you don't ask her you might miss your chance. What is the worst thing that could happen? to reject you? so what? You might be surprised with her acceptance. But you won't know it until you try. If you don't do it now my friend you won't be able to do it in your entire life. Remember: Whatever you do now dictates your life in the future. Be courageous and go for it. You have everything thatit takes. Just be yourself and don't pretend to be someone else.
2007-02-16 05:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jay C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know til you try. If she rejects you it is her loss and just remember that. Don't be afraid though or you will end up missing out on meeting a very nice girl. Most nice girls won't ask guys out. Grow some balls and get out there! You will look back on high school and laugh when you are older.
2007-02-16 05:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by A M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my goodness im in the same situation, but with a boy. im also scared of rejection! the best thing to do is just go for it, and hope and pray that she likes you back. If not, then jus move on to another girl! im sure u can find other girls out there. Good Luck
2007-02-16 05:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Carly ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What have you got to lose? If she says no so what? Then your rejected and? It won't be the first time trust me. Get used to it now. You never know she might say yes. Life is a gamble start it now. Once ya get the hang of it ya might just be good at playin.
2007-02-16 05:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like asking her out..... welll...just do it. ..while you can.
Time is very precious and as you know it flies by in a second. So dont wait for second chances. Just do it. There is no harm in it.
You ain't gonna lose anything ..after all. Just see it this way...maybe that girl also feels the same way about you... i mean she too wants to ask you out... but ..she is waiting for a chance.
Sometimes it is better to speak it out... Be positive... and go for it.. good luck Dude...
2007-02-16 05:51:52 · answer #11 · answered by marydent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋