I've been going with this guy for a few months now. We get along pretty well, have our disagreements, but seem to be able to work them out! Except for one thing. He has this fetish that I want nothing to do with. I was honest and told him that from the get-go. But he keeps making reference to my doing it, Every time he does, I let him know I am not comfortable with his even bringing it up! My question is- does his continuing to bring it up mean that we won't be able to have a relationship if I don't give in to this? I have no intention of because I find it gross! I'm a pretty open and adventuous person but, not this fetish! Am I wrong, or is it ok not to want to fulfill his every wish? And how do I make him see that it ain't gonna happen! I'd understand if he wanted to end it, I guess, but he hasn't indicated that!
2007-02-16 05:35:03 · 1 answers · asked by just another dudette 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should never feel pressured to do something that you are not comfortable with. I think you need to explain to this guy again that it is just not going to happen. Ask him if your relationship has a future without the fetish. If the fetish is more important to him that you, it's time to call it quits. You are worth more.
2007-02-16 19:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by jammydodger 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋