my bf is getting real stuck on me and we have only been dating for like 5 months...what should I do?
2007-02-16 05:29:57 · 6 answers · asked by sweeter than you 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is this clinginess bothering you?
is the relationship so easy to throw away that dropping him which is the easy cop-out is in your mind?
instead of avoiding the whole matter with a cop-out, strengthen the relationship. tell your BF that he is your life but not 24/7, tell him that you have friends you havent done anything yet and you are sure he has some that needs his attention.
2007-02-16 05:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he loves you but if you don't like it, you'll have to tell him that you think he's being too clingy, but it's a sign that he loves you. wait it out if you want a long term relationship. he'll be less clingy after a while. trust me, i've had a bf 4 one yr and 8 months
2007-02-16 13:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by Emily Simmons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like the guy jsut let him know that he's being to clingy, don't be so blunt about it to him. have a time of day to sit together and let things out on what you guys like and dont like together, what's confortible and what's not in the relationship.
2007-02-16 13:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by beautywarrior_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oohhh break up with him. before you no it, hes gonna be stalking u when u go out with your friends! it has happened to me before. i was going out with this guy for about 4 months, and he was TOTALLY clingy. So i had o other choice but to dump him! it was getting out of hand, and i suggest u dump him nicely, becuz it sucks when he gets outta hand. I hope i helped.
2007-02-16 13:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Carly ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him, that clinginess will get worse.
2007-02-16 13:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to be with you so you should let him be with you, he will eventually let you go just give him some time he just feels a little unsecure without you is all.
2007-02-16 13:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋