"I just met a guy from internet dating and we've been seeing each other 2x ( almost a month now) He lives too far from where I live (2hours travel) . Every night we usually talk to the phone. He alwasys ask me when I will go to his house and sleep over. He said that is the part of getting to know each other well"
2007-02-16 05:27:08 · 21 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello sunshine,
As nice as this guy may seem to be, you still do not know him well enough. It is far too early for a sleep over. We hear so much in the news and media about vulnerable women being taken advantage of,or worse; yet we always assume that it could never happen to us. If he cares about you, he will respect your wishes and wait a while. I am not talking from a moralistic stance, I just have a metaphorical alarm bell ringing. This guy may turn out to be really nice and a genuine person, but in the mean time...play safe for now!!!!
All the best! :o)
2007-02-16 05:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like each other, why wouldn't be normal? you seen each other for a long enough time, why not take step further. Unless you are dating to talk on the phone, but then whats a point of dating. It seems you having cold feet, and not because you don't want to sleep over, but because you having second thoughts about the "relationship" and thats totally different issue all together.
2007-02-16 05:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever actually met this guy before because he could be like an internet stalker or whatever and when you go to his house for a "sleep over" her could rape you and kill you do you really want that to happen and if you say yes than go and if you say no then there's your answer don't go.
2007-02-16 05:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met someone very special on Net so they're not all weirdo's.
My advice would be to stay at a hotel or b&b first - then u are on neutral ground & always tell a friend or family member where u are as u can't be too careful.
Good Luck xxx
2007-02-16 05:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
personnaly speaking sleeping over is NOT SAFE do not make that mistake , you may have to regret it your entire life i mean you hardly know that person ,
and if he has really said all that you have writen on the question line , then i feel you should not sleep over at all no matter what excuse he gives .
good night
be safe and have a nice day.
2007-02-16 05:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by Winie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not okay. If you want to go see him get a hotel room. People can seem one way on the phone and tell you what ever they want. When you get there he could be a total different person than he made himself out to be. That's how girls get themselves killed and raped.
2007-02-16 05:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go to his house straight away,
tell him to meet you at a restraunt,or in a park ,
an if you think its safe,an he is ok,then follow your instincts...
Just for your own good,he sounds a bit dodgy though asking you to sleep at his, straight away....
2007-02-16 05:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by *Å®åßîåñ P®îñÇꧧ ©* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me that is a little suspicious. I know you think you trust him but men are sometimes a little creepy. Have you even met this man face to face? Does his mother know? Or are you to old for that.If I were you I wouldn't!!!
2007-02-16 05:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far great advice from answers. I would like to add that if you do meet him do not leave your drink unattended.. It's too easy to slip a date rape drug in it.
2007-02-16 05:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by Soulfulgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no definitely not, wait till you have met him a few times in public places first, even then i wouldn't go to his house alone, get him to go to yours and let friends or family know.
2007-02-16 05:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by woolly bully 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋