We are both in high school he seems interested... he waits for me after class, stares at me during class, walks with me in the hallways, teases me.... and most of all likes to laugh with me at jokes!
But i seem to always look away at him, My other best male friend and i spend so much time together and when we talk we mostly ignore him.... he seems to be left out when both of us are together...
he just laughs along at our conversation...
am i showing him the red flag?
THank you~
2007-02-16 05:18:13 · 9 answers · asked by Halomot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he seems to be someone that has been hooked to you, like a lost pup.
he wants your attnetion, and you are trying not to give him that...sounds like he isnt someone you want to get to know, so YES, you are playing hard to get...which is a crappy thing to do.
MInd games and head games are excuses to use or avoid what should be done.
If you dont want to know him or be freidn with him, tell him, avoiding him and hope he gets the hint isnt 100% guaranteed.
Some people are more slower to realize it.
Yes, it is crappy to be the one to reject someone so we try to avoid it, but thats life in the game of love and singles.
dont play games, telling him is the best and fastest way.
2007-02-16 05:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you and your male friend are not serious. You should tell him it's not anything. You should try to get into a conversation that both of them can get into. Maybe even talk to eachother instead of you. Then they'd be friends and he'd realize that maybe your male friend isn't really you boyfriend, but just a friend. Try letting him stand in the middle between you and your friend, then maybe he won't feel as left out.
2007-02-16 13:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by mysteriousmystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I think your playing to hard to get, and soon enough he is going to lose interest and give up, I think you should let him know whats up, this same kind of thing just happened to me I lost interest after sahe said she like me but wanted a bit of time by hereself after she broke up with her ex so I stayed close to her then she started to like my best friend but he has a b/f then I kinda just called it quits because everytime I would talk to her it would be about her or if it was 3 of us she would ignore more.
2007-02-16 13:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by jessegr09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes trying to get with you but don't know how to tell you. Red flag no I don't think so.
2007-02-16 13:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by jay3tweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you interested in the other guy?...
You could be really used to being around your male friend that you kinda forget he is there... , butif your not interested showing him some attention could make him over think about it and fall for you more... your not really playing hard to get sounds like you have some one who dosent want to give up..
~Quin.
2007-02-16 13:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by Quin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i'd say the red flag. maybe he thinks you're playing hard to get though.
2007-02-16 13:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are definitely playing really hard to get, you should talk to him and think about how he feels when you do that with you other best male friend....good luck :)
2007-02-16 13:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by MM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you are.. just try talking to him more and act like you would if your around your best 'guy' friend
2007-02-16 13:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by ; р я ε т т ч <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're interested in him let him be more involved. If you're not interested he obviously doesn't get it, so tell him
2007-02-16 13:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by Emily Simmons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋