my cousin is getting married in april. we got a save the date about 2 months ago, but we havnt gotten an invintation yet and its the middle of feb. i did get invited to the bridal shower, even though i dont know the bride. another thing is that the bride keeps talking to my best friend about the wedding, but my friend didnt get a save the date. does that mean she isnt invited?
2007-02-16 05:11:24 · 11 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
it isn't traditonal for the invites to be sent out before 6 weeks to go until the big day, so they may not be ready to be sent yet.
i would talk to your cousin,she will be able to clear this up, you could offer your help - she may appreciate an extra pair of hands this close to her wedding.
2007-02-16 06:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by frost7216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok it is weird but there may be an explanation....this may be weird also. Maybe she is sending the invites out late.....maybe she got busy, forgot or it may just be the postal service MAYBE. If you got a save the date, I am sure you are invited. I would call. To the best friend situation....I don't know how fancy her save the dates were but, I know for myself (as improper as this may be) if I am talking to someone everyday, I will not send a save the date to them because they already know. I would send an invitation but in my own little mind, I would think that they talk to me everyday so they don't need a save the date. I am sure the frazzled bride assumed she knew about the date therefore she did not need one.
2007-02-16 13:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by sjlova86 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be getting and invite. some people dont send them out until like a month before. call and ask your cousin i am sure she wouldnt be offened. and since you are family she probably want to make sure you knew about the wedding. save the date cards and invitations are expensive she might have just sent the save the date cards to family members.
2007-02-16 13:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by andy a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is weird. Invitations are supposed to be sent no later than 6 weeks before the wedding. It sounds like the couple doesn't have it together!
2007-02-16 13:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by wild_orchid_tx36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are invited! She wouldnt send you a save the date & invite you to the bridal shower if you werent invited! If you have anymore questions just ask your cousin! I hope this helps! :)
2007-02-16 13:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by She is Beautiful! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your cousin or, better yet, his mom. Men don't have a clue about what is going on with their weddings.
You may not be invited to the wedding, for reasons of space of money or whatever.
2007-02-16 13:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you doing asking total strangers about whether or not you and/or your friend are invited to your own cousin's wedding? CALL HIM/HER UP AND ASK whether or not you and/or your friend are invited for the wedding! Simple!
2007-02-16 13:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by jalabi99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with Darcy. Ask your cousin to clear things up for you.
2007-02-16 13:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would simply ask your cousin it would clear things up for you
2007-02-16 13:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by darcy m 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you got it - go see a movie with your friend. The food is better there anyway...
2007-02-16 13:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋