I'm 20, and I've noticed (at my workplace) that all the women who don't have kids have boyfriends. I went out with a girl once (the only date I've ever been on) who had a son, and things between us are through because I think she found out she was pregnant (not mine, I'm still uh... not "experienced"). I don't want all that drama, but it seems like all the girls have either drama or a boyfriend.
2007-02-16 05:07:05 · 11 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Expand your search beyond the women at your workplace. That's why they invented Match.com. That's why they invented church socials. Go to the park and approach a girl and strike up a conversation -- preferably with a girl who is not pushing a baby stroller.
Good luck, son!
2007-02-16 05:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by jalabi99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about the opposite, and try to look on the other things happened in the other parts of the world besides broaden your perspective towards the fairer sex.
According to the statistics, the women population have reached a level when men population on the earth are no longer equalizes ours ~ it's like 6 women equals with a man -- which obviously shows how less guys left, not to mention about the bisexuals and gay.
Strictly speaking, many of the women in my nation faced shortage of the singles (men, of course) ~ and most of the women in the urban cities end up being spinsters until death.
Look ~ who says we're almost lost from the available radar?
2007-02-16 05:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by PossumNight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A single mom wouldn't be as free to date, it can take some planning in order to be able to go out, so sometimes they just choose to stay single.
But just because she has a child, doesn't mean there is automatically going to be drama. I'd advise staying away from a woman who has drama, no matter where it comes from. But if a woman is a single mom, it doesn't guarantee drama.
If she's got a good handle on her kid(s) and doesn't let them disrespect you, and if you ex is decent, then that's a pretty good deal.
But childless women break up with their boyfriends all the time, so keep hope alive and just keep looking. Your woman will come into your life some day.
2007-02-16 05:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by Your Highness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and talk to a girl out of your workplace or office or whatever you'll probably have a better relationship anyways and a better chance in getting a girlfriend and what I meant was that in-workplace affairs/relationships usually don't turn out as well as you wish they could.
2007-02-16 05:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date women in your workplace. Single women who don't have kids at your age are usually in some form of higher education beyond high school.
2007-02-16 05:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 20. Enjoy your singleness. By the way, there is nothing wrong with dating a single mother. Don't judge a book by its cover.
2007-02-16 05:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by abgroove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the same way where I'm from. Guys hate that. But don't settle for the mom or the drama if you don't want it! Be patient, your princess will arrive in due time.
2007-02-16 05:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a smart one, when you finally find that nice single gal with no drama and no kids... she will be one lucky woman to have such a smart/wide boyfriend
2007-02-16 05:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jillary von Hämsterviel™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, we aren't all taken. Guys don't seem to take the time to look for other chicks. Maybe you're just looking in all the wrong places?
2007-02-16 05:12:11 · answer #9 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's very interesting. That's just the way it is. I don't have any kids..............I have a man! A great man!
Don't give up or settle for less You'll find her. You have lots of time.
2007-02-16 05:12:39 · answer #10 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋