I have this friend shes new to the school so every guy want to get to know her ecspecialley the ones i like and she seems to like them too should i let her do her thang or should i tell her to back off????
2007-02-16 04:52:36 · 16 answers · asked by devon a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How many boys do you like? LOL
You have to choose one and stick with your guns. Tell her who do you like and let he know that she needs to stay away from him. You can't hold on to all of your boys, you can't have it all.
Good luck dear. :)
2007-02-16 04:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anyuta M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her do her thang. IF shes a fast *** then interest won't be for long. Think about it though, she can't possibly get close to all of them. She can only really be with one at a time. Its kinda hard to explain my logic, I don't know if you understand. All the guys might like her, but they all can't possibly be with her, or at least not at the same time. She's new so of course she's going to get the attn. Who doesn't like something brand new?
2007-02-16 13:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by TILAC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd let her know the guys you're interested in, ask her what her opinion is on them and see what happens from there. If she stomps all over yur ground, you know she isn't a good friend. But if one of those guys gs after her, you don't really have a choice. You can't force a guy to like you.
2007-02-16 12:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by ifoundapennyonheads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a long time to get a boyfriend. It seems hard now, but there will be plenty other guys out there. And if it bothers you that bad, talk to her about it...not the guy... Tell her how you feel. Tell her what's on your mind and she'll help or back away...or give you an explanation.
2007-02-16 12:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by KMChickk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a jealous person. Guys are always interested in a new girl. She may find out she doens't like them (or you might find that out too). You do your thing and let her do hers. Let her know how you feel about that special someone and see how she reacts. If she's a real friend, she won't try to hurt your feelings like that.
2007-02-16 12:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by ☺SDgurl☺ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
og it really sucks... that why i try never have gf-s
because of competition
dont let her be the first one
but the only think u should never do - gossip about her
I think what u should do is to be in one company with her, maybe make some more friends together, probably guys have nice opinion about her - but they dont know hwe well; so make some common friends, relaz in this company and with time express urself, then boys will understand who is better
2007-02-16 12:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by olesyainwonderland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to of course give the guys their freedom to chase who they will. But it depends on how close you are to her and how much you like the guys. I am a guy. If there is a girl I am interested in I will let my friends know and they will atleast give me a chance. But that pertains to one person and not a whole bunch of people who I am interested in.
2007-02-16 12:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by lend322 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is NEW to the school let her gain some new friends and if she like a guy that you like guess what there are more of them
2007-02-16 12:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said every guy want to get to know her.not she is trying to get every guy to know her.so you can't tell her to back off.cause :
#first of all she will tell every guy that u asked her to back off pretending she is an innocent and she tells him just to know why you did so although she likes you so much and she wanna make friends in this new place.she don't want to be alone.
#second of all the guys will believe she is prettier and more attractive so she made u jeolous.also they will see her lika a victim of you.
she also will have much more confidence in herself which is the most attractive element for guys
so my advice to you ignore her and try to be prettier or make a new look to have guys attention again
best of luck
2007-02-16 13:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a boyfriend, you can tell her to back off. If these are guys you're just drooling over, it's not your business who she sees or who they see.
2007-02-16 12:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋