I really like this guy whose going. We're friends and I think I've got a chance here. Problem is I'm painfully shy and can't seem to get up the confidence to flirt! I haven't got any competition tonight (all my mates know I like him) Sooooo whats the best way to do this? I want to pull- to put it simply! Thanks for your help!
2007-02-16 04:44:46 · 15 answers · asked by Moi? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no competition. yea right! when another girl knows that you like another guy, believe me you are going to have competition. So get into high gear if you want this guy. wear something nice and give him a big smile and start a conversation. GOOD-LUCK!
2007-02-16 04:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no poor you. DONT be tempted to get plastered to give you courage, what a turn off! If he is your friend then just start a normal conversation with him but hold eye contact a little longer than normal, touch his knee or shoulder or whatever just briefly whilst you talk. This will let him know you like him and if he knows you are shy and likes you back will make the first move. Try and be yourself, laugh at his jokes and be really interested in everything he has to say, ask him lots of questions blokes love talking about themselves! (this also means you dont have to do much talking) Giggle, bat your eyes and be girly. None of this takes any guts to do itll just come natural Good luck x
2007-02-16 04:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by British*Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are easy - just talk to him, make sure he gets the hint clearly that you are interested but only let him think he can get a kiss and no more as you don't want him to think you are a ****.
If he is shy at all he will need a clear sign and believe me, guys don't always get them.
2007-02-16 04:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by shirju_rich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look hot - smile at him with sleepy eyes. Don't say a word. Just smile at him across the room. Act intriguing.
I wish you the best of luck.
2007-02-16 04:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by celianne 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What party are you going to @ 10:00 am?
2007-02-16 04:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone's going to be dancing on tables by eleven, swinging their panties round above their head and dribbling down the front of their cardigan.
2007-02-16 04:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by itchy.crack i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just get him alone, and say "I'm really shy, so I have no idea how to ask you out. What do you think I should say?"
That's funny and cute and how could he resist?
2007-02-16 04:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you have to do - just smile at him. Men are terribly easy to pull - all of em.
2007-02-16 04:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's like every other bloke in the world ply him with alcohol and show him your breasts. He'll be putty in your hands.
2007-02-16 04:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk over to him hitch up your skirt and pull him towards you slapping one on him.
2007-02-16 04:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋