me and my guy there's times when we will have sex and the condom breaks he says he doesn't notice when this happens. we did it a week ago and this is kinda gross but i went to the bathroom and when i went something was in my underwear and it look like it could have been the tip of a condom....my guy didn't tell me it broke.....should i confront him about this?..do guys know when it breaks? ......no rude comments
2007-02-16 04:37:06 · 14 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course we know when it breaks. Maybe you should consider Birth Control Pills...sounds like this guys trying to get you pregnant.
2007-02-16 04:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by Cool Daddy-O 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes my dear, he knows if it broke or not. When the condom breaks or tears it is putting you at risk for pregnancy. If you are comfortable with it, I suggest you assist him in removing the condom after sex that way you can tell if it is still intact. If you are not comfortable with handling it, then at least try to sneak a peak at it. You need to tell him about the condom breaking last week and remind him about unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.
2007-02-16 04:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by crzynluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could have been the tip of the condom, but I would talk to him about this, you may need to get a different size condom for him
2007-02-16 04:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they can always tell. But if they are always breaking then he needs to get different condoms and you need to get on the pill.
2007-02-16 04:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guys cant tell but next time you put the condom on him. Put it on the tip and roll the rest down using your mouht. My girlfriend does it and I love it.
2007-02-16 04:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by rc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...they know...and you should realize that too...you should tell him to pay more attention and you do that too. And even a better idea: try other condoms, of a higher quality even if they are more expensive...
2007-02-16 04:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by iunona_33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had it happen to me before and i didnt notice that it broke....unless it tears kind of up on the shaft its hard to notice...maybe hes wearing condoms that are too small though, so you should look into getting him some bigger ones....thatll make him feel great too if you approach it from that angle
2007-02-16 04:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by Huh? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl be careful. and no, they dont always know when it breaks. happened to me once, only found out afterwards when it looked like a popped ballon! found out i was pregnant a month later.
2007-02-16 04:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's nasty. Not to mention foreign objects in there can make you sick, cause infection etc. You need to confront him and figure something out.
2007-02-16 04:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they can tell. Tell him to try a different brand or be prepared to pay child support.
2007-02-16 04:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋