I am 23 and he will be turning 25 in 2 months. This is very immature of his actions of repeatedly breaking up w/ me when he is mad- In an hour or so, he will apologize and want us to work things out.
Why are men such babies ? Why cant men handle emotional problems through words rather than action??
2007-02-16 04:18:07 · 21 answers · asked by BitterEnding 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can almost guarantee that he is a Gemini! I used to do the same thing and I did it because I was insecure of the relationship and finally dealt with it and let it go, and now it doesn't happen. Well, I don't, we've swapped positions now.
I'm curious as to how long you've been going out now, because all this BS started happening once I realised we were getting serious and I wasn't ready for commitment, yet. My girlfriend is 9 years older than me, so she was apprehensive about me but let it go, which caused me to be apprehensive about her...
If you guys are serious, he'll get over it within a few months. Just don't take what he says seriously and joke with him about it, when he's in a good mood of course. Worked for me, maybe it'll work for him!
2007-02-16 04:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 13:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself. It's very immature of him to keep changing his mind every time you two have the tiniest falling out. Next time, don't accept his proposal to "work things out." You may feel strongly for him, but this is ridiculous and you can't do it forever.
Also, you shouldn't generalize about all men "being such babies," because they truly aren't. It's really dependent upon the man. You have to give him the opportunity to handle emotional issues by talking. If he's about to storm out of the room, stop him, for example. If you don't hand the chance to him, he'll never take it.
Buena suerte!
2007-02-16 04:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by rayediance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What, like women don't do the same things? Stop generalizing, it's pretty immature, too. As for the communication issue, he may not be able to vocalize his true feelings the way you'd like; why no try sitting down with him and ironing out the problems, since they seem to be recurring. At this point, all you are is his 'enabler' and the relationship is pretty shallow at best. Either shet or get off the pot...neither one of you is happy.
2007-02-16 04:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Switch it up on him, DUMP HIM. Do you honestly wanna keep going through this?? He is almost 25 years old and acting like a little kid. He needs to want to work things out before he tries to dump you next time. He jumps to the chance of breaking up with you, so break up with him and DO NOT TAKE HIM back!!!! You deserve someone mature, you dont need someone who cant make up their mind.
2007-02-16 04:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by Amber Vance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask this question as if you have no say in the matter.
If he's making you crazy, don't get back together with him! You are waaaaaaaaaaaay too young (and your relationship is not permanent enough) to try to force a relationship to work with an incompatible person.
The next time he breaks up with you, show him the door!
2007-02-16 04:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why are you giving him all of the power? HE keeps breaking up and He keeps getting back with you.
Who is the baby? Knock him to his knees, sister. Don't keep allowing him to come back and he won't continue to leave. Why are you still putting up with this crap?
2007-02-16 04:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to be in control of you and you are letting him have his way. tell him to grow up soon or you are ready for something you can count on, instead of always wondering what is going on. tell him to be honest with you about his feelings towards you or you both will continue to do this until somebody grows up. pray!
2007-02-16 04:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by granny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that breaking up over stupid little fights is dumb. And that if he wants to break up over something stupid again, it will be for good, and forever. Maybe you shouldn't be together if you fight so much.
Read Dr. Phil's rules for fighting:
http://drphil.com/articles/article/20
2007-02-16 04:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women and men are equally childish but in different ways, don't take him back, he's done, move on.
2007-02-16 04:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by Phillip P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋