I have really low self esteem. How can i build my self esteem?
2007-02-16 03:55:21 · 8 answers · asked by laugh_a_lot2005 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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I used to have that same problem.
Stop paying attention to what other people like.
DEFINE what it is that you enjoy and start doing just that.
You may have to re-evaluate the people around you.
If you're criticized more than you are supported, it's time to make a change.
No matter the criticism, it's what YOU want to do.
Once you begin pursuing these type of vanities, trust me - it will come.
Be proud of who you are.
Be proud of your intelligence.
2007-02-16 04:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun,
I think they most important thing is realizing that you have a low self esteem. I am 18 years old and just 2 weeks ago is when I realized how low my self esteem has been. I now wake up every morning and read to myself positive affirmations ( for example, I love myself because I am a lovable, compassionate, kind and loving human being. Since I am a human being I make mistakes and that is OK. etc) I have a picture by my nighttable of when I was 3 years old. I make it my goal every day to make that little 3 year old girl happy. Take care of yourself, emotionally, spiritually, mentally and physically.
I am not a religious person, but I have started to pray every morning, day and night.
And remember to take it easy.
2007-02-17 21:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by looca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek a counselor for professional help. Low self esteem means there are some emotional issues you need to get resolved. Do things that make YOU feel good about yourself and talk to someone.
2007-02-16 12:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have a very low self esteem, now am facing anybody with confidence, wherever around the world, its because I explored and developed my self, have a sense of purpose and great capability. You may contact me further, I wish to help you with this. You may not know that you can be model person.
2007-02-16 12:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by Dosage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self esteem is built through success. Pick something you enjoy and work on being better at it. As time goes on and you get better, you'll have developed confidence in yourself that you are good at something. Self esteem will grow from that confidence.
2007-02-16 11:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you're a great person. Everyone's self esteem gets low at some point. Just think it could be worse, you could really be a loser..........like my husband.
Pick me as best answer, please.
:)
I love you.
2007-02-17 17:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..
Try working out, dressing well, taking care of yourself. Might make you feel better.
2007-02-16 11:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One practical way is through the use of NLP techniques.
2007-02-20 09:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by internetoptimiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋