ok so one second he is happy love dovey, then he is mad like i did something worng, when i know i didnt what do i do? It is so hard and makes me so depressed. :-(
2007-02-16 03:54:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, i'm sorry to say this but your boyfriend has emotional problems. Getting mad for no reason is definitely a sign of that...just stay positive! If he wants to attitude it up...leave him to wallow in his own misery...misery loves company but you don't have to be around when his chemical inbalance kicks in?!?!? Tell him how you feel about and then make the best decision FOR YOURSELF.
2007-02-16 03:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by Benny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break Up With Him Guys Like This Never Change Only Gets Worse
2007-02-16 04:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Lin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think of that the working difficulty bothers you as lots, so I frequently basically skimmed over the 1st 2 paragraphs. what you assert is that he's quite jealous, and you adult men combat even over te littlest issues. what you may probable do is look interior your self and ask "am I finding for a combat/argument?" ... properly, are you? Are you irresponsibly recognizing your place? Is there something you are able to exchange in case you like him to diffuse the region? Are you finding for a reason to locate an indescrepancy? OR, are you harmlessly harmless, and this guy is basically bitter and indignant. i'm no longer an indignant individual, I in no way argue except it is for a reason that i think in, I additionally belive in very own accontability, you may comprehend your self what you'll be doing incorrect, and you p.c. your battles hunny. whether, you need to not be scuffling with on a on a daily basis foundation, being with somebody could be frequently relaxing exceedingly whilst it is somebody you like, and despite if or no longer you have a confrontation, you may nonetheless love eachother adequate to comprehend that for the time of no way is a time to be so hasty. the two giving room for an apology would desire to you have been in charge for hurting the others feling. Why are you with him in any respect in case you're afraid to state your opinion? My very own subject is that I talk too lots and that i'm scared to death of actually loving somebody.. and it makes me vulnerable and defenseless.. yet greater importantly.. truthfully letting someoe quite love me.. and that i've got a run as quickly as I lose administration of my emotions self defens mechanism... interestingly. yet in no way announcing something? properly isn't that a horse of a diverse colour ;) ... My 2 cents. in case you quite love him, and clearly he's your definitive boyfriend, then attempt to alter the type you react, attempt to ascertain the way it may hav been meant in a diverse way, in case you thoroughly have self belief that it got here from spite, then you definately could talk approximately your emotions. in case you exhaust the numerous aspects which you look nto your self and finally end up inexplicably no longer in charge, then it is probable risk-free to renowned that that's in reality the extrinsic effect, and despite if or no longer you p.c. to handle all of that, is as much as you on my own. (extrinsic effect= the guy that's your present day boyfriend) Random human beings on yahoo solutions won't be in a position to make a number of those existence judgements for you, you may lead them to your self.
2016-10-02 06:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by lograsso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing games. You've said it already. He craves your attention whether it be good or bad. You need to let him know that it's time for him to go if he acts like he doesn't want to be with you. You don't need the up and down game. Just be straight-forward with him and do yourself a favor. Good luck.
2007-02-16 03:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by Girl, Empty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to think to your self is this guy really worth the pain you go through to be with him? And if you think he is then talk to him about the way you feel.He is most likley unsure of him self so he plays the headgame with you
2007-02-16 03:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by girl in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds wishy washy. From my experience guys who act like this are having commitment issues.You need to have a talk with him.Good luck.
2007-02-16 04:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by wifeypoo63@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let that one go. There are better guys out there. You won't be able to change him or fix him unless he wants to change. Move on.
2007-02-16 03:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he needs help, i know its mood swings but maybe he`s going through something, talk to him and let him know how he's acting and how it irritates and confuses u, let him know before this situation leads to serious situations.
2007-02-16 03:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by apple|addikt. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has a mood disorder, try to get to know this person better.
2007-02-16 04:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing your bf is deaf and dumb, because apparently talking to him won't be as informative as asking us.
2007-02-16 03:57:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋