Show my bf I love him. He's really romantic and I'm shy. Sometimes when he's being romantic I just turn it into a joke coz I'm shy. How do I show him I love him very much?
Nothing physical or sappy.
We're not teenagers.
Thanks in advance!
2007-02-16 03:49:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you have yourself a good ol romantic Rudolph Valentino. You are not a teenager, and you don,t have to do the nasty to be romantic.
My mom always said to watch out for the shy ones.
If you love this guy, then you must recipricate his feelings for you.
we are not talking about public displays of affection, but c'mon girl you ain't 17 no mo'.
Love is not a joke. In fact love is a serious buisiness.
If the product is no good, then you go shopping elsewhere.
My wife used to be shy, so she said.
Shy my eye. I guess my open and straight foward personality with a touch of comedy blasted the shyness out of the water.
If you find that your man's advances are a joke, then you should tell him to be a comedian. You making fun and getting shy about his romantic advances may put a damper on the situation.
Stop being a wet blanket. Grab him by his hair,or if he has no hair, his collar and give him a hard wet kiss on the lipsters.
Don't be shy. Tell him you love him before he has the chance to be romantic. You set the stage.
Try a little something different. Put on that sexy outfit. Wear those high heel pumps you've been saving in the closet.
Take him out on a date and you pay for dinner.
Heck, a woman wants to run for the presidency
good luck
you no u have it in u
2007-02-16 04:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by icd1765 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner also tends to turn my romantic gestures into jokes, which I have found very hurtful in the past. For a while, I stopped trying because I was tired of being laughed at... it created a very sore spot!
First things first, try to stop deflecting his attempts! It's like learning to take a complement, just smile and say "thank you" if you don't know what else to say. And if you can't show your appreciation in words, show it with deeds.
Make him dinner, give him a pedicure, scrub his back in the shower, be the one to clean the grill after a cookout... There are a lot of ways to show you care!
2007-02-16 11:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't have to be sappy or overwhelming. When you are close to him, especially in a crowd, just look him directly in the eyes and smile. Touch his hand when you walk past. The sense of touch is the most needed sense of every human being. A smile across a room is like sharing a beautiful secret.
2007-02-16 11:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by Wifeforlife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I could tell you is to not turn his romanticism into a joke. he probably doesn't think you're serious, and you want to show him you're ready to be in a relationship with him. Even little things make a big difference.
2007-02-16 11:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by lytlLyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was very shy when I was dating my husband,not teenagers either.I would try sitting a little closer to him.I also like cards because they let me say stuff I couldnt. Just be yourself and all will fall into place.Good luck.
2007-02-16 11:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by wifeypoo63@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could express yourself better in a poem, or a latter or a peice of art. dedicte it to him and then brace your self and say that he really means a lot to you and that you love him. then you will be SO happy it's over and you acually said it. youi can relax! lol
2007-02-16 11:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by NY Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to have to get used to him. There are times to play and there are times to get serious. just let it happpen.
2007-02-16 11:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by Manny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
body language
2007-02-16 11:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by US 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be attentive to him, hold him and share quality time with him.
2007-02-16 11:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋