i had this "girlfriend" (friends with benefits) who said she was in love with this new boyfriend. i figure, if she's so in love with him and things are going so well, why in the hell is she still calling me? she said herself along time ago that if she found out a guy she was dating was talking to other girls she would be jealous! i told her over a month ago that i think we should part ways. so ladies what the hell is she doing? is she crazy? does she have some feeling for me? what should i do? in so far i have deceided not to answer the phone... yet.....
2007-02-16 03:44:49 · 11 answers · asked by the doc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She either loves you or likes you very deeply...she feels insecure with the new guy and she keeps calling you to keep you in her life...she's hoping you will realize your feelings for her and you will go and get her...she's a drama queen and wants her prince charming (you) to save her
2007-02-16 03:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by j c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably wants to make you jealous by saying these things and the reason she calls is cuz she has feelings for you. Maybe she wants something more than just friends with benefits
2007-02-16 03:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by ALL SMILES :D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not weird your the feminine one the pretty one some one has to be! its fine! fyi i have nothing against anyone im very open minded i just dont think everyone answering your question is old enough and may not know about different sexualities yet. My son saw My uncle and boyfriend and they were kissing omg my son almost had a heart attack im not kidding.. so i sat down in my gmas back yard and talked to him. My uncle passed away from AIDS he and his boyfriend were highschool sweat hearts. he was 40 yrs old. how about he call you love bug? you look like a love bug too
2016-05-24 06:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is still in love, I had a similar case, she love me and get married to another one, though I’ve never planned marring her, I do not find her guilty of that but she will always call me and still claims she is free from the feelings of the love, quite unlike you, I receive her and pretend the most in love in doing on line that I know use to kick her off for me just to kill her inwardly.
2007-02-16 03:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by Emerald 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has feeling for you....It's harder for women to do the friends with benefits thing....She either 1. Got a boyfriend to make you jealous. or 2. Made a boyfriend up to make you jealous.....Just be honest and tell her, you are no longer interested in being friends, with or without benefits.....But just to warn you, she could be crazy...Fatal Attraction ring a bell?
2007-02-16 03:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by onekoolkat_31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd walk careful. She sounds like she is not at all honest in her relationship with this guy.She may be just having fun or seeking the security of a relationship. But if you involve yourself with her at that level, you may get the same treatment.
2007-02-16 03:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she might have told you about this new boyfriend of hers because she was trying to get you to come back. My guess is she figured that if you got jelous you would come back to her
2007-02-16 03:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by girl in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boo T Call.
2007-02-16 04:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by Perdido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was not commited b4 and not commited to her now bf. u should tell her that if she really cares or loves you then she should come to you when she doesnt have n e other bf...if ur available.
2007-02-16 04:46:39 · answer #9 · answered by Heer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you, if you like her to answer the phone befor she gives up
2007-02-16 03:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋