I'm trying to find out is there any sort of thing that causes PDA (public display of affection ) Like could it have to do with something in your past or does it just come?!
2007-02-16 03:44:05 · 4 answers · asked by RainbowsRock! 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Yes i have problems with PDA
i'm just trying to find out if im just plain crazy or
does it have to do what happened to me in my childhood. I push my boyfriend away in public if he get's close and things and i hate kissing him in public now if were alone im fine but in public im not.
2007-02-16 03:49:20 · update #1
I think that having a PDA (Personal Digital Assistant) is what causes PDA's(Public Display of Affection... It has something to do with the electromagnetic field generated by the PDA that can then result in a change in the testosterone/estrogen ratios, which can cause a PDA... So, PDA appears to lead to PDA, so to avoid PDA, turn off your PDA, unless you are turned on by PDA, you might then leave your PDA on to have more PDA's. You might buy a second PDA if you are not having enough PDA's :)
All seriousness aside...
People vary in their level of comfort in public displays of affection... The bottom line is, if both people are comfortable with it, then fine. If one person is not, then the other person NEEDS TO RESPECT that, and not be pushy about it. It is NOT NECESSARILY a problem to not be comfortable in engaging in a public display of affection... 100 years ago, NOBODY would have done this, and it would have been viewed as crass, vulgar... There is nothing inherently wrong with being uncomfortable with it, it is a preference.
The problem arises when you partner insists upon putting their needs for this above your needs... You need to speak directly and openly about the fact that you do not like it, and he needs to respect that, or if he cannot, then he is unlikely to be able to respect you in other, more important matters. Good luck to you!
2007-02-16 03:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by doc in dallas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has to do with self security and confidence. Many people do not like to display affection is public for fear of what others think. A person true to them self, confident with them self and secure with them self does not care what others think. They are more than happy to express their feelings to the one they love. I, for one, condone the action.
2007-02-16 03:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by S H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called LOVE
2007-02-16 03:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you talkin about.. do you mean you have a problem with PDA?
2007-02-16 03:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by Im addicted to the memory of him 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋