Ive been dating this guy (im 20,hes 24)for about a month and a half.I am really attached to him now, and I am starting to get VERY jealous feelings.He's not the best looking guy, but hes very outgoing and friendly.He lives in a diff. city than I do,so I dont know his friends very well.i get very angry whenevr I see him talking to or hugging another girl.I understand that they are his friends from high school,but it still bugs me(and no hes not the player type).I had a talk with him last week about this and he said he respected me telling him that and he would "take care of it".Well,last night we went out to a bar where he livesHe was doing the same thing that i asked him not to and he said that its harmlessHe also kept telling me Ishould pay more attention to him.I went to the bathroom and when I came out there was a girl all over him so I freaked out. He said I embarassed him.I asked him what he want to do about us he said whatever makes me happy.Now hes not answering my calls/texts.
2007-02-16 03:43:39 · 9 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well he said "He would take care of it" But obviously He didnt. He needs to be willing to set those "touchy" feelings away. He needs to aknowledge that you dont feel right him doing it, and He needs to stop.
My advice would be to just give him a couple more chances, but then after that, Maybe he isnt willing to change to make you happy. I would consider calling it off.
2007-02-16 03:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I know it bugs you out but your really being over zelous about this. Don't let the other girls know that your worried about them, It shows on your face..Be confident and don't take things to the heart. As long a s he is introducing you as her girlfriend and none of the girls are getting fresh with him then your making him worried because you guys just started dating and your already being to clingy. If he respects you and you don't think he gonna cheat on you then let it be. Trust when I say this do not let another female see you upset or anything of that kind because one of there friends just hugged your man because when they go back to the bathroom there are just making jokes and continue to make you feel akward. Give him a break and don't call him all the time, make him chase you..
2007-02-16 03:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HEP ADVICE YOU BUT YOU HAVE NEVER GIVING THE BEST TO ME. ANYWAY YOU STARTED BY WALKING OUT WHILES FRIENDS HAVE VISITED. YOU SAID HE IS NOT THE KIND OF A PLAY BOY YOU SEE AROUND SO WHY BECOMING JEALOUS WHEN YOU KNOW HE CANNOT BY PASS YOU? CALL HIM AND TELL HIM THAT YOU LOVE HIM SO MUCH SO YOU FEEL LIKE DYING WHEN HE TALKS AN HUG OTHER GIRLS AND THAT YOU STILL LOVE AND NEED HIM. WITH TIME WHEN THE GIRLS SEE THAT YOU ARE ATTACHED TO HIM THEY THEMSELVES WILL NOT APPROACHED HIM . HE WILL ALL BE YOURS. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-16 03:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kwadwo B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to chill. He has every right to be upset with you. Jelousy is NEVER a good thing. He's allowed to have female friends just like you're allowed to have male friends. If you can't learn to trust him you're going to ruin the whole thing.
2007-02-16 03:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres my opion, if he is getting to close with these girls then i would warn him, if your told him how you feel about him doing that and he didn't respect that enough to stop then why wast your time get with someone who will respect your feelings. How would he like it if you did that? and telling you to pay more attion to him is probably hes way of distracting you from the real problem.GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-16 03:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say that it sounds like you are not ready for a mature relationship. He's probably had it with your childish behavior and is ready to move on.
2007-02-16 03:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U went with him don't treat him like dirt now talk with him spend time with him.
2007-02-16 03:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Brittney M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word >PLAYER, If this upsets you it won't get any better.
2007-02-16 03:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2007-02-16 03:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by kelly m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋