Just dont know what to do.Please help me!!?

Question

Okay so i have PDA (public display of affection problems) meaning i hate doing things in public and also i have social problems were i dont like meeting new people anyway.. This guy i could just basically call him my boyfriend he likes to point all this out on me and he says im to shelted in and i have internet issues and everything im like well if you dont like it dont stay with me and he says well easier said then done.. okay well my point is he was a complete different person a couple weeks ago then he started school again and now he has a new "crew" and now he is just plain mean to me he says he likes me but he says he is getting impatient with me because i havent asked him out until yesterday. Then when i did finally ask him out he says i dont know let me sleep on it so you know how it feels to wait.. I made him wait 3 months before i went out with him. okay what a big deal. Dont get me wrong he's a wonderful person. what do you think.Shuld i go orstay should i be more open

And what about my PDA problem and social problem because he says he thinks im Embrassed of him and im not so please what should i do

Answer 1

OPEN

Answer 2

I am a guy I used to do the (PDA) in public & now I quit but it must be some women like it and others don't Meaning do we live shelter lives? Seven or so years have been trying to understand such. [ PLAYING THE LATEST g/f, she's is not the person to call ] I feel the romantic person so I to have internal problems & " Things On the Brain" Plus the certain issues like language? When almost all the ppl on answers say this or that to do? I want this lady but need to play the things out. Bfn.

Answer 3

First, you should be more open, not to PDAs, but to meeting new people and what not. Public displays of affection, in my opinion, are rude and selfish. If you care for someone that much, you should be able to wait until you are in private to express your emotions. Especially if it requires sucking faces. As for staying or going, GO. First off, not accepting your date, and not accepting it for revenge is just wrong. You shouldn't want to deal with a person like that. Secondly, the facade he puts on for his friends, should clue you in to the fact that you will never know what to expect from him. Sure, he'll tell you that he is one way with them, but another with you, and that may be well and true, for now. Not many people are able to balance double lives effectively. One of those lives will start to bleed into the other and most likely it will be the side you don't like bleeding into the side you liked. Leave him, right now, he's not sure who he is or wants to be, so how sure can you be that you'll be dating the guy you were initially attracted to.

Answer 4

First of all your PDA and Social problem is going to get worse if you don't start changing little by little. If you like this guy and you are sure he likes you too well you have to tell him about your problem. So maybe your embarrased of your problem and not him. Tell him that your sorry you made him wait 3 months for you to answer him, but that you were a little to embarrased about your PDA problem. Let him know you are not at all embarrased of him and that you do like him. Tell him to please understand you. If he waited 3 months for you to answer I'm pretty sure he does like you enough to wait. You should start being more open and going out mere, but remember be yourself too. Don't change to much that you start acting like some one else. If you talk to him I'm pretty sure he'll listen and understand you. If by any chance he doesn't understand or takes it as a joke then he's not worth it. I'm pretty sure there more guys out there who are waiting to me a girl like you. Don't stay on the internet to long, you have to have a social life too. Just think of it this way. The way you talk and write to people on the phone and the internet use it in your social life. He dressed up, be yourself and you'll see it was worth it. It'll take time, but you have to take the first step. My best friend was just like that. I told her the same thing and step by step she keep going out a little more, hanging out with other friends and now she's been dating this great guy for 2 and 1/2 years now. He totally understood her and helped her out. He loves her so much. Hope you stop worrying to much and talk with him. I hope you guy's work things out.

Answer 5

hi,
if this PDA is a true thing then he should be more understanding towards you. if you are using it to keep him at bay because are not sure as to how you feel about him then you should stop and allow him to get on with his life and you should so the same. lif e is so short and to complicated for massive drama. and the is what it looks like to me when i read your letter.

Answer 6

He sounds like he is playing you.
A lot of people have social issues, and some things should be saved for private. Or at least the right venue.
If he cared about you, he would not want you to be uncomfortable, and he wouldn't treat you like that.

Answer 7

Im sorry can't help ya there . I love people. I love meeting new faces but i'm terrible w/ names. I love the internet too. CRAZY THINGS GO ON HERE !!!! wd of advice ... some things r worth waiting for!!!!

Answer 8

it seems like he's very judgemental of you, that's not always a good thing, truth strengthens a relationship but too much can kill it. it depends on how strongly you like him. if it's too good to give up, maybe you should go steady for now, and just hope for good in the future

Answer 9

Well my boyfriend did that to me. What I want u to do is if he acts different when he is around his boys then **** him someone is better for u.

Answer 10

Oh, hun, dump him on his butt! He has serious issues and isn't worth your time! You deserve better than that!