How much privacy should I give my boyfriend, and how much is he taking away from me?

Question

I just need to know in everyone's opinion is my relationship healthy? Alright. Eveyonce and awhile my boyfriend will come on my computer and like skim through my emails, or check my phone for text messages.. but I don't mind because it's healthy to know that I'm not hiding anything, And in Turn i check his "Facebook" all the time. and when girls write things that i think are too flirty or WAY to far i'll delete them.. I think it's keeping our realtionship out of trouble.. but is this way too much?

Answer 1

i dont think that's right. there's no need to be checking emails and phones, you have no privacy at all!

Answer 2

the reason we act like that is due 2 our past
and relationships that have caused us to reassure ourselfs, by keeping tabs on eachother on the down-low. (secretly) !! now
i dont know yalls past, but if hes giving u the vibe that hes doing somethin dirty,then
ur only doing what u gots 2 do!! and hes probably doing it cuz he kinda knows your
doin it.. if both of you r being true 2 eachother then, most likely your eye spying is being done in vain, but doing it just cuz u have no control over your insecurities, and
untrust, but if you continue 2 spy, it will only esculate and become an obsession, which will lead to becoming more suspicious, and
dis-honest, which will lead 2 a negitive relationship, and a broken home!! good luck

Answer 3

You both sound young and somewhat insecure. If your trust him and he trusts you there should be no need to " browse" I guess its natural to want to know.. but I do think there is a limit.

Answer 4

Yep, way too much.

If either one of you wanted to cheat, you'd find
a way around it, so neither activity is really
actually showing your faithfullness, it is just
nosy.