Me and my live-in girlfriend broke up last we because i caught her cheating. i came to work today and she sends me a txt msg saying that she is staying home sick... she never does that and we still live together------ what's the meaning of this?
2007-02-16 03:07:54 · 7 answers · asked by varia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be this whole situation is taking a toll on her emotionally. If she regrets what she did, it will be affecting her. I just don't understand why so man men and women cheat. Cheating is such a sad thing in this world. She hurt herself by not having enough self respect for herself, she hurt you by not being honest and truthful in addition she is hurting the person she cheated with by continuing in this relationship. It could be she is planning on meeting him somewhere. It's really hard to say, just ask her.
2007-02-16 03:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's over between the two of you, I would suggest you make arrangements to live separately. One of you should move out.
You caught her cheating and now she's off the hook. Meanwhile, this is probably still hurting you especially because you still live together and you will see every move she makes and always wonder what she's doing. This can drive a person insane.
You need time alone to hurt, think, grieve and then move on. I would even suggest you cut off communication with her. She's a trader and wouldn't be a good friend for you either.
2007-02-16 11:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda of confused you caught her at home with someone else? If so then leave her a$$ alone" Now if you haven't caught her red handed and she wanted to stay home because one she really felt sick or she just didn't feel like coming in to work..I do that once in awhile.. Don't draw any conclusions because she desides to do something different, If you feel like she's doing wrong, ask her..Now if she staying home more often calling out of work then we got a pattern, then I would drop by to see what she's doing, dats just me, lol
2007-02-16 11:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi im taylor b
well you might still have all that love 4 her. you sound like a good person an she should be ashamed of her self 4 doing that should'nt anybody be treted like that just let her go an you will find your true soul mate one day an yesit will be hard to let her go but do whats right 4 you just dont make your self look like a fool by staying with some one who is golebreake your heart all the time good luck wit everything
2007-02-16 11:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should she text mes. you? maybe her guy is coming over? but why would she want you to know that.? I think I would go home for lunch if you are able to....... Games of this sort are not fun esp. when you have to work..... might think about finding a new room mate soon... or move out yourself.
2007-02-16 11:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by sushihen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up but you still live together? You need more help than anyone can give you here.
2007-02-16 11:11:56 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she's cheating on ya? Maybe she really wasn't feeling all that good...
Whatever it is, communicate! If she's cheating on you, she'll succumb to your questioning. Then maybe it's time for her to move out!
2007-02-16 11:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by Yvonne Mystic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋