Ok well i really like this guy. Last year we were good friends and then he like me a lot and asked me out i stupidly said yes even though i wasnt really feeling him so obviously that relationship didnt last too long. The thing that sucks is now i really really like him but what sucks is that we've grown apart some much a hardly even talk i mean sometimes ill say hey or ill talk to him online but nothing ever seems to flow. I dont know what i should do. Do you guys have any suggestions on how to get us back to being good friends...possibly more...or should i forget him and try to move on? Help. please
2007-02-16 02:33:29 · 7 answers · asked by peyton 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kel,
sound to me like you cant decide. So first, you should ask yourself what you want to do. The oppinion of other people really does not count. Its your life, your feelings, you should decide.
If its hard for you to decide what to do, thats ok. Thats, becaseu your are very young. As you grow up and get some experience, and know your feelings better, you will make decision faster and straight forward, without hesitations and doubts.
For this, best is to get know many people, talk to them, learn to smell idiots and nice people, which is not always easy.
You will then know, what kind of guys suits you better then others, you will learn who of them you can spend hours and days in the same room, without feeling uncomfortable and vice versa.
give it time, dont worry to much now baout htis one guy. The more you think about it now, the more confusing it will get.
Mixed feelings are hard to make make decisions on. With experience, you will see and feel things more clear.
2007-02-16 02:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He took a huge risk in sharing his feelings with you last year and you weren't in the same place. If you really like him that much now, you'll feel the fear and do it anyway. Talk to him about how your feelings have changed and that you want to try it with him now in earnest. The least he will feel is respect for you for talking to him about your feelings, the best is you start a new (and what could be a great) relationship with him. What do you have to lose?
2007-02-16 10:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg. Exact same situation. We are now good friends after many embarrassing moments, like when I told him I liked him (after we'd broken up and I realised I actually did like him) and he obviously didn't. It'll take time, but try to slowly build up convos between you the two of you and act normal around him. Not flirty, but just friendly. Believe me, it's worth it to stay friends. Our relationship got stronger after all the stuff behind us. Good luck!
2007-02-16 11:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depend on you, If you like that guy than you can start chat on line & start again friend Or you can say him sorry I was confuse about My personal problem, as long as you were both like each other, you can try probbly He say no Or yes answer. If he say No than what is him talking ton.
2007-02-16 10:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Bombay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him sometime , he will come back to u but just give him space don't call or u call some few times not every day or just send sms tell him about your feelings . Im sure he will find your space in his heart. Don't give up if your heart is there as long as u are sure that u want him. His all yours.....
2007-02-16 10:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by NUNU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you could try talking to him, but ya know, he's probably still a little heartbroken and might not want to be around you.
2007-02-16 10:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
head 'em....move 'em out
2007-02-16 10:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋