Our mom doesn't like it when we meet people online and i agree.
My sister has never met this guy in person and that scares me.
I tried to tell her that this scares me and she told me to f*** myself and get a life. What should I do???
2007-02-16 02:18:39 · 12 answers · asked by Kellie Timp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell your mom. your sister could be getting herself into a situation that she can't control. your mom should set some parental controls on the computer and talk with your sister about why meeting strange people over the internet is a bad idea. Look at the news- kids are abducted through the internet every day.
2007-02-16 02:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your sister??? If she is in college, let her live her life. If she is younger than that, and from her response to you it seems she might be (and you even younger), meeting people online is never a good idea, nor should it even be an option (unless you are in Bumbleff Montana in the middle of no where, I'm sure plenty of guys go to your schools). Women are particularly naive and stupid at that age (when it comes to "love" and that mess). You can tell them anything and they would believe it, hence the danger. Online discussions are problematic because the lack of actual conversation (things like subtley, wavering, sarcasm in an actual voice), truthfulness and genuineness. If older girls can't see through the curtain of bullshit, leave them to their fate.
Besides, YOU shouldn't do anything. Call your sister a fat skank and tell your parents your concerns. If your parents do nothing, well, its on them when she calls from a pay phone 400 miles away sobbing at 3 AM.
2007-02-16 10:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met a guy online 2 years ago and we are still together today, not all of them are weirdos or freaks, but do be careful...i chatted to my partner for over 6 months before i met him xx
2007-02-16 10:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her alone. who ever she met could be normal. If she does go to meet him in person then maybe you should go with her too. This way you can meet the guy and see for yourself what he is like.maybe that will make you feel better.
2007-02-16 10:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch, try to watch her and if she tries to meet this guy in person, follow her. and take either a witness, or a way to contact someone. and if the guy takes some kind of action or something else happens, you'll either have a witness so you can sue the dude, or you can contact the police right on the spot.
2007-02-16 10:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by kayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have met ladies online and in real life --- if your sister takes care and meets in a public place it should be ok --- it can be very rewarding or it could be a total loss --- just like meeting anywhere else
2007-02-16 10:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're her sister & you love you should keep on telling her whether or not she wants to hear it. Women's intuition is never wrong & if it feels wrong it is wrong. It's your responsibility to look after your sibling no matter how old they are coz if something happens to her, how would you feel if you did nothing to prevent it from happening.
2007-02-16 10:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by jinx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be worring for nothing.. I met many friends online and tehn in real life :) Nothing wrong ever happened..
Wouldn't it be worst if she told you she met a drunkyard in a pub the night before? :)
2007-02-16 10:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by Lorenzo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
probaly cuz she really likes the guy and she doesnt want u to tell her to stop talkin to him i wouldnt let her met him and idc how long shes known him its still not a good idea. but they cant really do anything just talkin so its not that bad.
2007-02-16 10:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her that u r worried because this person will do something bad to her maybe even hurt her really really bad maybe even kill her
2007-02-16 10:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by blacksabbath200000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋