There are so many girls and women who pick and stay with "bad boys" and in abusive relationships that maybe they really do think that's the way it's suppose to be? I don't know, but I think I got hooked up with a girl once who dumped me because I wasn't "bad" to her. Do some women really get off by being treated badly?
2007-02-16 02:17:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No! Woman who are like that must have came from a previous relationship that was abusive. Maybe you were just catering to her every need. sometime when woman get everything they want its hard to see a challenge. Woman want a challenge... Maybe that's why she wanted someone bad.
2007-02-16 02:26:39 · answer #1 · answered by *SeXyB* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women don't like abusive relationships. They are attracted to "bad boys" because they want fun and excitement from their relationship, just like we do.
Women stay in bad relationships longer than they have to for numerous reasons. One is that they fear being single again (there is a social stigma against single women that gets worse the older they get) and losing the good that comes with the relationship. Others feel responsible for their relationship and will stay longer than they should in an attempt to "fix" things that are inherently unfixable (sometimes known as the cycle of abuse).
It's stupid to think that women enjoy being treated poorly. The girl didn't dump you because you weren't "bad" to her. There had to be something else at work.
2007-02-16 02:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they do, at atleast 1 point in every womans life they are drawn to the "bad" guy. I do my best when trying to pick up girls to show them that im bad and good at the same time haha. works the majority of the time.
but yea, ive been dumped for not always arguing and treating a girl like crap. some chicks are just nuts.
2007-02-16 02:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by colera667 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, they have been with so many that they don't think they deserve a good guy. A bad guy has lowered her self esteem. In your case she probably doesn't like you enough and you are better off now than finding it out much later.
2007-02-16 02:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think anybody wants to be treated badly. Only crazy and seriously disturbed people like to feel pain.
People stay in abusive realtionships because they can not get out of them, or because they don't realize they are being abused.
2007-02-16 02:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by midnightjoker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a lot more then you think. why do you think the words "Babies daddy" is actually common phrase now? anyone, yes there are a lot of women with sever issues who love to be mistreated. they have issues best to steer clear of them
2007-02-16 02:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i REALLY dont think so, hey, who do u think we are? animals? get a life she probably dumped u coz u had these weird and questions and u were boring and ugly.
2007-02-16 02:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by sexy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋