how would you deal with it? just to give me some idea on how i should proceed and face my problems>> p.s( you might have to scan over my last questions to get an idea of how i feel and the circumstances im in and the problems i face so you can accuratly answer this question)>>id appreciate anyones time and effort
2007-02-16 02:05:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I read thru your past questions. This is what I see in you:
1) You focus only on the negatives
2) You do not like yourself
3) You are blaming everyone else for your misery
4) You do not take responsibility for your own life.
My suggestion to you:
Start planning out your future, list only positive goals. Set dates to acheive those goals (have long term and short term goals). Each morning choose your mood for the day and TAKE RESPONSIBLITY for that mood.
2007-02-16 02:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Firefighter EMT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that I would do...is change that picture you have on this site to something more appealing and/or happy. It alone is depressing.
Put aside all the bad and ugly in the past. Write down on paper what you want in your future. Write down the things about you that you want to change. Take them one at a time and make a possitive change. With the technology in the world today you could make you look like anything that you want. Hopefully to make you feel the better. Does you hair look like you like it. Too long or shaved is not attractive. Go to your clothes. Is that the look that you like? Is it a look that would be appealing to others? If you sort of use moderation in your choices; I don't see how you could miss.
As far as the bad things that have happened to you; you can't change them but you can try to live so those things won't happen to you again. It's hard to put them out of your mind, but you can try to get interested in different things in order to get your mind on completely different things. You could get into a good organization that helps people; it would also help you. Don't look for what you're going to get out of it, but how much you can help others. Getting your mind off of yourself will make you feel good. You will meet good people. Try to stay away from some who may want you to go in the wrong direction. You are probably good at spotting that kind by now. Your life will turn around and you will be happy. If you need counselling, it's available in most cities. Some may be without charge.
I wish you the best. Be good to yourself.
2007-02-16 04:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by Barbra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, I took the bait you laid for me and went to the trouble of going to your profile and reading your last few questions.
Two words of advice: GROW UP
You are 29, but no where near being a man. You are a crybaby. The only reason you should hate yourself is for being so weak. You only look at yourself, not the world. You are selfish and self-absorbed. You need to get down to the hospital, nursing home or veterans home to see people with real problems, and real courage.
2007-02-16 02:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously a well to do whiner...and thus a troll.
2007-02-16 02:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in a word
PRAYER...
if you want more words please read my answer to the one you asked 2 questions ago
2007-02-16 02:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋