So we're in the same class at school and haven't felt anything for her until about 3 months ago... I told her that I really like her and then she told me that she just wants us to be friends... But after that at parties and stuff she started kissing me and holding hands and stuff... Tho she was a little drunk... But that was it... After that she pretends everything to be like before. She is kinda shy and I'm sure she won't say anything to me about this. She never had a boyfriend yet and she's 18. She's a good person and I like her so much.. I just dunno what to do anymore. I think she's just scarred about what would others say and the fact that she'll have a b/f. One day she's acting nice to me.. on the other she's more distant and it drives me crazy.
2007-02-16 01:55:03 · 3 answers · asked by Adrian L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're really good friends .. we get along really well.. It's just that i want more. I feel i can't live without her... What should i do?
2007-02-16 02:51:19 · update #1
She is leading you on..forget the tease and find a decent girl.
2007-02-23 20:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things I observed from your description:
1) She may have changed her mind after the initial "just wants to be friends" reaction.
2) You said she was a little drunk, I think that means she was not completely out of control... she must have known somewhat what she was doing.
3) She seems quite shy and inexperienced with regards to getting a boyfriend.
4) Shy girls do what you described, one day nice to you, and some other days seems distant (that's because she's either feeling unsure or being extra shy).
2007-02-16 10:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think the alcohol is the best truth serum. And basically alcohol makes us to things our subconscience tells us to do. Just see how it plays. I been in that situation and its not good. Just see what happens and use it as a learning experience.
2007-02-16 10:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by null 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋