I know I still love her, but I'm tired of still hurting.....I can't figure out how to make myself let go......why can't I?
2007-02-16 01:52:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing gets you over the last one like the next one
2007-02-16 01:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by Les c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've heard the saying "love hurts" and you are experiencing it. Letting go of someone is not easy. You need to find other things to occupy your time and your mind. Join some clubs or groups (your local book store has reading groups, local health clubs have various groups - volleyball is fun), get some friends together and go bowling, join a bowling league. Take a college course in photography (or some other course) just for the fun of it, you'll meet new people too. Eventually the hurt will lessen and you will be thinking of other things. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-16 09:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to say... you cant.
i have loads of friends and myself included, with the same problem. Nothing noone can say will make you better or forget, becasue if it was something so great to you at once, you just can't. i would say give yourself time. If you try to forget her with someone else or hide your feelings, they will bottle up and if she decides to come back (becasue some girls are like that) you'll explode. Moving on is really hard. if your tired of the pain, you arent. If you truly really were you would move on. There is obviously something that wont let you. It might be a the memories. Maybe your just emotionally attached to her. Iyts hard to let go of something that was once so special to you. It happened to me. So unless you fiind someone special that can help you lessen that love, or take some time to yourself you cant. Odnt hide your feelings. at least try to move on. Its going to be reallyyyy hard. But ufif you dont, you like the pain. We all do. It makes us.. id odnt know.. feel alive i guess. the point of life is look for happiness. try to be happy. thats all i can say.
2007-02-16 10:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by Carol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time to let go of somebody especially if you spend a lot of time caring for that person,take one step at a time and 1 day at a time,look for something positive in your life that you can start to build and move on, keep moving, be busy and stay away from that person as far as you can,only time heals a broken heart so be a friend with time,do something enjoyable,socialize with a new group,there is always something good that will come out of a bad experiences so stay positive and focus on something good and good luck
2007-02-16 10:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep busy and leave you cell phone at home make your self unreachable.If she doesn't feel the same way about you then you have to get over here . start going to the gym . exercising helps you get a pick me up, happy feeling. walk get together with some friends and try not to talk about her with them , good luck in time you'll get over her . Good luck
2007-02-16 10:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by HELLO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on what your interests were back before you were infatuated with this girl. Hang out with your friends more and get out and meet new people, eventually things will work out
2007-02-16 09:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by Wicket_Big_Mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date other people get on with your life.
2007-02-16 09:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by holly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your thinking. You are in charge of what goes on in your own head!
2007-02-16 09:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
search for another girl
2007-02-16 09:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by Shoeflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is she not telling? Only God is perfect.
2007-02-16 09:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by Amy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋