Is he worth trying to help?

Question

My boyfriend of 4 years curses/threatens at our children such as "get the f away from me if your going to act this way", "if you don't stop.I'm going to kick you ***." ect.. My 3 year old is overly sensitive and he cuts her down about it all the time. He would rather sit and watch TV than interact. He can't make decisions. When I do make the decision he will get huffy and puffy because I didn't ask him. He will make me feel guilty because he didn't get his way. He thinks the world is out to get him. He gets angry very easy. He talks about the same stuff over and over. If I make a rule or a list of things to be done he will throw a fit and says I can't control him. Should I get out now? Should I try to get him help first?

Answer 1

first when he is in a good mood try and ask him what the problem is - if he won't discuss then give him some choices.
1.anger management - parenting classes - family therapy.
if he won't do this then you have to get rid of him - does he do drugs???
your children need protection and this is your responsibility
he can look after himself - you kids can't
do it now