We're over 25.
He was out of state for V-day working and was supposed to get in that night around 11:00. I wouldn't see him until the day after. I called him on the 15th, but got his voice mail
I finally got in touch with him late yesterday evening (the 15th). He was 45 mins away @ his parent's house. He wasn't planning on coming to our city anytime soon and didn't seem to want to talk. He didn't even have the decency to call and let me know he was in the state.
I made a gift basket with local stuff and the most expensive part purchsed online. I had plans to make him a romantic lunch and even baked him cookies @ 5am yesterday.
I went to a garage sale and found him 2 very nice pieces of furniture.
Now, with him being suddenly so stand-offish, I don't even want to be around him. I just want to give him the furniture and put him out of my life. I don't want give him his v-day gift or lunch because I don't "love" him at the moment.
Am I justified in my feelings?
2007-02-16 01:34:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Well, unless you know what actually happened, you'll be premature in your judgment.
It's natural to feel rejected and hurt, but what if something happened - seriously?
What if his parents are getting a divorce? Tough to answer when you don't know.
I say be fair to yourself and him.
You did your part - wonderfully. Nothing wrong with that - you have a big heart.
What I suggest, is giving him some space. The Valentine's day really means nothing more than a representation of what should be. If he's been good to you, then he should get more consideration.
If you find out, it's some BS - I'd still give it to him and let him know it's not what you are looking for. You need someone more consistent.
TRUST ME - he'll NEVER get you off his mind because he'll remember and beg you back.
One love...............
2007-02-16 02:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 12:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are justified, sound like you would be better off without him.
What would 16 get me?
2007-02-16 13:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the stuff for yourself.Happy Valentines day to you!
2007-02-16 01:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by roosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋