how will i ever get a beautiful girlfriend? how will i ever achieve my dreams of employment, finding someone nice, a nice girl, emmegration to canada? living in a nice home? im 29 and have missed out so much, ive never worked and cant right now, because im awaiting a second opinion, and a correct diagnosis, and treatment. its not knowing whats wrong with you. knowing you have a mental illness, thats so frustrating. all i can think about is my dreams and how ill achieve them. i feel ive left it too late. i cant get over how i look and how im ageing, and my two bottom front missing teeth..i will i ever find that girl? how will i maintain my internet relashionship with the 20 year old girl ive known two years in canada? she said she loves me, wants to move here to england. but she doesnt no how my life really is and i really love her....can anyone lift my spirits make me feel like i have hope? i dread remaining in this one bedroom council flat on social welfare for the next 10 years
2007-02-16 00:42:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
In England, if they have a Public Dental Hospital for people on Social Welfare, just get yourself on their Waiting List. That should be your No. 1 priority. Ageing with you probably is caused from medication, perhaps, smoking and drinking. You are still young,and once you have the diagnosis of your illness, you will be able to go where you want to with your dreams. Hoping you will be well enough to have your girlfriend going to England to be with you and I am sure if you explain to her about your life before she moves, everything will be O.K.
2007-02-16 01:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by dogwhitenowra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i decided to start with this question instead of your latest one because i can follow along better ....
first sweetie stop...the simple fact that you are here on this earth is a blessing for someone, u may already know them they may be yet to come but u r a blessing....and worth being here....
and trust me when i tell you that all of us even and sometimes more so the ones who seem to have it all.....are at time terrified and very alone.... and the relationship u so badly want....and i am sure u have heard this before...will only come and stay once u establish a better relationship with yourself... it sounds cliche i know but it is true....if u think u r poo...if this is how u see u how do u expect anyone to see anything different? and i am telling u that u r a miracle....heart hurt bites...trust me i know and all that i am telling u i know from experience, i struggle with severe depression and chronic anxiety attacks...my dog is a trained assistance animal due to my fear of people and places....but i work as an accountant and during tax season i get to deal with 20-30 clients...most of them new everyday...and some days there is that eveil voice telling me that they r going to figure out i am a big phony...that i dont know what i am doing....
but i cant listen to that i make a choice and my choice is to get out of bed each day take my shower thank my God for one more day to try to get it right...
again this may sound too simple but he is the only thing that is constant and real and true and something i know...God does not change and he does not make mistakes and if he loves me with all of my issues and faults then that alone tells me i am so much more!!!!!!!!!!!!
there is a lady out there who will see your beauty who will see your heart and will feel your love....but how will she see it when you wont even acknowledge it is there? and i realize when u are struggling with mental illness this adds additional stress on you...are u on meds? if so are you also seeing a therapist or going to group? if not get in there....dont just take the meds...that is just a bandaid...in most situations of depression and anxiety the meds are to get you to a place where you can work on the root...and yes in many cases you may be on meds the rest of you life but there are coping skills you can learn for the rough times...
and pray know that there is God and he is stronger than you can imagine and there is nothing he can not handle...even the hurt of your heart and every second of everyday the hurt will be getting better .... it is so hard i know but it will get better...GOD does not make mistakes knowing this ..... how can you think you are anything less? anyway i hope i have given you some things to think about and i will be praying for your strength and happiness
kay
2007-02-16 02:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at Bach Flower Remedies (since you are in England). Visit www.bachcentre.com and see how they can help you. You will be able to do something when you come out of this negative thinking. You will see the door that is open instead of looking at all the doors closed.
2007-02-16 00:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Swamy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could go to a place where they fix your teeth like the orthodontist and then go to one of those places that inserts porcelain falsies where your real teeth used to be. That's an idea.
2007-02-16 00:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by Prιηcεss Zεldα 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may find some advice and techniques in the following websites: www.depression.com/- and http://www.livinglifetothefull.com/elearning (.com/elearning) and www.relax7.com/7.php and the blogs of Shan Eris on "tackling depressoin" at www.myspace.com (http://www.myspace.com/7087317). It's not too late; far from it, but it's time you learnt to help yourself as much as you reasonably can.
2007-02-16 02:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by CLICKHEREx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious ?
2007-02-16 00:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋