guys help i like this boy who sits next to me in class....?

Question

i'm soo shy i can't talk to my friends hardly. i need major help plez?!?!

Answer 1

Have confidence in yourself. If people think you're weird because you've said something stupid - so what?!

My girlfriend is very much like you - my advice to her is, try not to fiddle when you talk to someone, and speak up (shy people are often too quiet!). If all you need is a little encouragement - what have you got to lose? You're 1 person in billions on this insignificant Earth, when there's people dying for their country, people suffering worldwide, surely you can approach a boy and make general conversation?? :D

Still, its always harder than it seems talking to someone you like. Try not to mumble though...perhaps a good topic starter is 'Hello. Watcha' up to?' :))

Answer 2

Be quiet honey and pay interest honey you do no longer elect to pass over a area wait till lunch or after class consult from him don't be afraid to open up enable him no how his sexiness is making you sense and the form you elect a pal or u in simple terms locate him beautiful.or in the journey that your shy write your type down with a short notice affirming which you like what you spot and you elect to get to no him a sprint greater effective outdoors of sophistication or learn which incorporate you call pulse telephone type and walk previous him and hand it to him and say think of roughly it call me.

Answer 3

Ok girl guys like to be the hunters so don't go running after the guy and even if you are shy give the signal. when he looks your way give him a smile but not a wink. try to give him some attention but not more than you would give a friend. If you smile and he smiles back then you know that he likes you too. then accidentally loose something with your name on, but make sure he is the one who is going to pick it up and when he brings it to you (hopefully he does) you start your confersation.

Answer 4

yeah i have the same problem i'm shy as hell only talkin to girls i crush on, what has helped me in ht past is to talk in a way that isn't in person or over phone. . . e mail is too slow, so try out like IM or of course myspace (but that place has bad memories for me :( and the ultimate is text messaging. but your the girl so it should be alot easier and less nerve racking ya knw. . . . GOOD LUCK :)

Answer 5

So he doesn't exactly know you exist?? Well u just have 2 get his attention or invite him 2 hang out with u and some friends (other boys included) and if all else fails you should just go strait out and talk 2 him

Answer 6

it would not be cool for your friends to talk to him for you (that is embarassing)

i would really try to get up the confidence to talk to the guy (even if he shoots you down there are always more fish in the sea)

i am sure you ahve lots to offer and you need to be confident in yourself inorder to speak to this boy and get him to notice you back

if youe really feel scared then the alternate route would be to write him a letter, but words from the mouth sound much more sweet

believe in your awesomeness and go get him :) good luck!

PS this will be good practice for all the speeches you will have to do in speech class in college :)

Answer 7

whats he lyk lol ? if you like him then talk to him BUT woteva u do dnt tell another person to ask him out 4 u ... if hes someone that you can tlk 2 then just tell him but if hes as shy as you are dont pressurise, maybe try and find out if he lyks u first. Only tell friends you can trust !

Answer 8

Don't just start randomly talking; he will think your a loser.
tehe(:

First find out things he is interestded in;
and talk about that; Guys like when girls like the same thing as them. With my guy; I just because good friends with his friends; then me and him started talking; it's all about the approach to the problem.

Answer 9

Just ask him for help with some work or something.. i'm sure he likes you just as much and he's shy as well!!! Guys love it when girls give us attention.

Answer 10

If you want him go to his best friend and and start to makeout with him then he will like you and he will want you if he ask you to be his Girlfriend say no for 5 days then say yes and then ever day makeout with his best friend.It always works trust me that is what my girlfriend did!!!!!!!