Alright, so here's the thing. I was going out with him and he was my best friend. Well he had feelings for me and I have feelings for him. We decided we should give it a shot. Well a day later, he broke up with me because he said that he is "moving" to California. Well I think he's lied to me many times before, because he's told me he's moving many times. Then on top of it all, I only hang with him at school and we never hang out outside of school.
He yells at me for making "such a big deal" of him breaking up with me. I don't really care. But don't mess with my emotions.
I know I am only in High School, so I don't expect relationships to work. People change. And many people are still very immature. I've had enough harsh expieriences and I'm very mature for my age. But whenever I decide to give stupid boys a chance, the chances always crash and burn.
And in all of this, I lost my so-called "best friend" because he feels "awkward around his ex-girlfriend." What a retard!
AHHH, HELP!!!
2007-02-16 00:01:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, just get over it and find yourself a new bestfriend/boyfriend because if he has lied to you many times then it's not worth trying to mend the relationship. The way he's behaving, i don't think he's suitable for you. Next time, get to know the guys well enough before giving them a chance. Hope this helps.
2007-02-16 00:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by MagicHolyCow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not as mature as you believe. Also, if you gave it a shot (your words), and a day later he broke up with you.....you weren't going together in the first place. You just became "friends with privilages."
It sounds like he is now totally uncomfortable with what happened, and the added pressure from you is too much.
Move on.
This too shall pass.
2007-02-16 00:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by jmiller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you are the one in the wrong. You sound needy, pushy and that is a sure sign to make guys run as far away from you as possible. Leave that guy alone. Quit stalking him. Just get involved in activities at school and get good grades. Don't be the one who turns into the loser.
2007-02-16 00:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by holeeycow 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well forget him focus on something other than men, you are still young enjoy life, go out with friends, leave the stress of relationships out, focus on your grades and have fun while you can, don't try to grow up to fast you will regret it later down in life.
2007-02-16 00:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say this but... welcome to the world of boys! I have a teenager daughter and I told her that the best thing to remember is ... at your high school reunion I can almost bet that he will be the same jerk he is now and you will be so glad that you didn't end up with him.
sorry boys but I am sure you will say the same about the girls.
2007-02-16 00:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by ladydaisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah calm down there. I can see why he might have broke it off.
He might think you are too spontaneous and are 'one of those girls' who looks down on people. So you might want to change your attitude.
According to your story, he doesnt sound like a best friend. Or he might not have felt like your best friend because of the way you treat him.
2007-02-16 00:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he is a retard. Don't know how to help though.
2007-02-16 00:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find and new one....is me tonijoni5@yahoo.com.br
No speeker inglis...spekeer portugues
2007-02-16 00:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing to be said...........HE IS NOT YOUR BEST FRIEND
2007-02-16 00:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new one...!
2007-02-16 00:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋