why can't i stand her at all. why cant i be in the same room with her or nearby her for even a second without feeling hate? i just don'tlove her. and she is really mean to me. we had a relative live with us when the relative was wrong and the relative told me that my mom was harsh. i know some would think i should be lucky i have a mom, but what if i just cannot stand her no matter what i try?
2007-02-15 23:57:27 · 6 answers · asked by Heer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's kinda hard to give an opinion without knowing the detaisl. What I can suggest is you have a honest, heart to heart talk with your mom and gets things cleared. Maybe she can tell you her reasons and you end up understanding she's not so bad as you think. Maybe she doesn't even realize she made you so hurt.
So, try talking to her, calmly, but let her know exactly how you feel.
2007-02-16 00:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Steiner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause you are a mean and hateful person. I believe you need to turn that heart around of yours, and put yourself in her shoes. There is no room for more hate in this world, I think there is enough already. When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, your lives will produce these evil results. Do not nurse hatred in your heart for any of your relatives. Rekindle that love you had for your mom. Maybe there's nothing wrong with your mom, maybe there's something wrong with you.
2007-02-16 08:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should give it a try and have a talk with her. i guess she senses your feelings, moms can with their kids a lot of times. Tell her how you feel and if there is a way you both can change that. If she's not willing to work on a good relationship with her child, I thing you might be right, but hate isn't going to make you feel any better either.
2007-02-16 08:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish I knew your age, you sound like a teenager. Believe it or not, teenagers frequently dislike their parents. If your mother is harsh, it may be that she wants the best for you. Give yourself some time to grow up, you may be able to appreciate her then. Parents rarely do things the way their children want them to. One day, you'll probably be a parent, and your child will feel toward you, the way you now feel about your mother. Be patient!
2007-02-16 08:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't give enough details for me to intelligently answer your question. Being a mom for over 30 years, I just might be able to help you get through this.
2007-02-16 08:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is something wrong with you son.
You must understand the things she does for you. She cares about you and loves you. She has done so much for you.
You need to start appreciating who you have because one day, they will be gone and you'll wish they wouldn't be.
2007-02-16 08:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by John Becker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋