I often think why are we here, why is this and that..i am a 14 years old kid issit a normal stage in puberty or what? Or i wasn't suffering from depression? But everyone says that i lead a cheerful life..
2007-02-15 23:51:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
When i think of all this my mind just when like nothing..when others talk to me, their words just dun go into my mind and i was like from another world..
2007-02-16 12:49:13 · update #1
This is not depression, feeling sad is not depression. Depression is a medical illness where you have persistent feelings of sadness every day most of the day. You either sleep too much or not enough. You eat too much or not enough. You can't enjoy things that you normally enjoy. Your brain slows down and you can't think straight and it makes simply getting out the door each day a major challenge. You know you need help when depressed, but your brain isn't working well enough to know how to get it. It spirals down to the point where you are in such extreme pain that you can't imagine going on that way. That is depression. It sounds to me as though what you are having are really good questions about life. Why am I here? What is my purpose? What is life? Life is about so much more than what we do for a living, how much money we make, how much fun we have. It sounds to me like you are on track for leading a life of seeing these truths, that many far older than you miss. It isn't where you are going, but how you get there. Good luck.
2007-02-16 01:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by gramma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem as if you are depressed. You're just inquisitive about things, which is perfectly normal for a 14 year old. I know many adults who still wonder why they are here and about this and that. There's a lot of pressure on kids today. Just take life as it comes, try to make rational decisions. If you need help, ask for it, and most of all, have fun while you are still able to. You seem like you have the makings of a fine adult, with some intelligence and compassion.
2007-02-16 00:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for your age to ask yourself such questions, we've all been through it. Some earlier some a bit later. I'm in the second group : )) I wouln't worry about it. Just try to enjoy life as much as possible, and don't let the thinking and phylosophy intervene much, there are still many things fo you to enjoy. ind a friend with whom you can discuss such things, it might help if you're feeeling depressed...
Good luck!
2007-02-16 00:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi... You're only 14 and you're about to get a moral breakdown about stuff people of 40 or more should go though when they didn't achieve anything in their lives... Cheer up, look for new friends, go out, and get messed up with your parents, this is what your life should look like... But please avoid getting stuck in this spiral of 'I'm good at nothing...' etc, you could spend the rest of your adolescence with this... Wish you'll sort this out quickly...
2007-02-16 00:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by Topaps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not depression at all...it is just that you are at a point where you are realizing there is much more in life now that playing with your favorite toys, or listening to music, etc... There is nothing wrong to ask yourself questions like these.....look for the right answers as we are all trying to do...
2007-02-16 00:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by Mark N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was depressed at a young age too. probably around there. but i think it is also a mental thing. if you think that you are truley unhappy and keep telling youself that you are depressed and that you " hate your life" that you can trick you brain into thinking that. try happy thoughts. im serious.
2007-02-15 23:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by kariownsyouall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person who can help you is you. Keep asking questions and looking for the answers. Your perfectly fine.
2007-02-16 00:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here http://geobay.com/bf6f34 is a good article i found about depression with treatments etc, should help you.
2007-02-18 15:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by gooner1212 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
specific I even have. I take medicine now to assist cope extra advantageous with my melancholy and rigidity sickness. i attempted to kill myself a pair cases until eventually now. whilst i become sixteen i attempted overdosing, it did no longer kill me yet made me very ill. i take advantage of to cut back and burn myself months in the past, I additionally use to go through and nonetheless do a sprint from my "purging sickness"...thats an eating sickness. i'm very insecure and prefer to stay far off from human beings countless the time to ward off any conceivable threat of having harm. whilst in highschool i take advantage of to cry myself to sleep everynight thinking that i become under no circumstances solid sufficient, that i become the ugliest element in the international i take advantage of to conceal the college bathing room just to ward off human beings incredibly of going to classification. on each and every occasion I wasn't in school i take advantage of to in easy terms not sleep in my room on my own in the lifeless of night for countless the day ordinary It become very confusing and awful yet i'm getting extra advantageous. i'm 20 now and that i'm studying now the thank you to stay a chuffed existence. i'm no longer as undesirable as i take advantage of to be, i'm alot extra advantageous now and lots extra bubbly and continually giggling and smiling now that's one in all those super feeling. Have a dazzling existence <3
2016-09-29 04:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋