2007-02-15 23:42:39 · 17 answers · asked by KAO 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me that you are a trifle spoiled and have never wanted for anything so you don't know how to value anything that comes your way. Perhaps try to see others for how they present their humanity. The gift of companionship is just that, a gift from one person to another, driven by some sort of attraction. We are, after all, responsible for our own happiness so try not to judge the value of someone in your life by how bored you may have become. through your own shortcomings.
2007-02-15 23:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by lurned1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes work to keep it fresh. Why not set a goal to try something new once a month. There are so many things to do. They range from going places that you've never visited to staying at home playing board games. I find as you do new things, you find out new things about the other person and give you more to talk about. I'm finding myself in a similar position so your question is giving me a kick in the pants that the relationship needs some work. Lastly, if you really love them you continue to enjoy having them around. You could just be in the wrong relationship and your boredom is a sign that this person isn't for you.
2007-02-16 07:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well we all want what we can't have. When u get it it's like a kid with a new toy. U like it for a while and then it just gets boring n u move on to better things. the only time a relationship doesn't get boring to the point where you can't stand it is when you are really in love.
2007-02-16 07:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by ~ B_e_K_z ~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all have Four Reasons to be in a relationship. One, is Physical Appearance. He or She is so good lookin'? You have to be with `em. Two, You need some motion between the Legs. It ain't Love. It's just pure Lust. Three, you have a fear of being alone. And many of us, fit that Bill. Or Four, you have an Emotional tie, that makes it real Love. Being Bored, means you weren't in Love. But you've lost interests in whatever got you into that relationship. You need to actually "Love" someone. Or it will go bust. And your Heart is the only way to really Love someone. I hope you find Love, With this Guy or someone. else. Good Luck to ya!
2007-02-16 07:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
After a while… your tolerance decreases. You become more angry and frustrated. Couples will argue more and push each others buttons. Someone will then drift away from the relationship thus getting bored. You may notice that you have nothing to say over the phone anymore.
2007-02-16 07:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if they are feeling the same for you?
Dont worry about this so much, a day will come when you will not be bored of a guy and will want to wake up with him everday, and that day you will decide to wear this clean white dress that you will never wear again anymore.
2007-02-16 07:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by zdenka77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You ten to take people for granted after awhile and that turns you off. Try and keep the relationship fresh if you can. How old are you? If young, you have plenty of time. If older, you need to be more selective in your choices. good luck
2007-02-16 07:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mismatch in a relationship is a state of disequilibrium. By the time you meet your near-perfect match, who will love you as you love him/her, you won't be bored again.
However, if you are looking for a perfect partner, you will never attain equilibrium.
2007-02-16 07:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by peaceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few months!? I can't stand the site of them after a few hours! They make me sick! Why do they have to be near me?! What are we talking about?
2007-02-16 07:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by Snapper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. And then you start noticing things you missed before! Like, man! She's got a wierd nose! or I never really saw this , but she's really quite dumb. And you want to yell Can you just get the F away from me!!!
Nope, I can't relate,, :)
2007-02-16 07:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋