How To Ask?
ok im 16 and im an exchange student in austria. there is a girl i like quite alot and i think she likes me but she is also one year older than me, but its a little hard to tell i kinda get mixed signals from her, we flirt a bit and she seems to laugh and smile alot. so tonight i want to ask her if she likes me as more then just friends, so my question is how to ask and how to get the nerves to ask. do i just ask her to go in private and just ask straight out if she likes me more than friends? or is there a better way? aswell i forgot to mention that we have hanged out a few times already. please help thanks alot
2007-02-15 23:35:00 · 10 answers · asked by bd3333 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of the best relationships I ever had was with a fabulous guy a year younger than myself! Don't be scared or nervous about that; it shouldn't matter. That's a bold move to just come out and say it (I like it!), but if you're not comfortable or too nervous, increase your flirting by touching her gently on the shoulder, or the arm; anyplace that conveys warmth and affection, but not overtly sexual. Watch her response. If she doesn't move away from your gestures, she's probably into you too! Have fun, and enjoy this. There's nothing like being 16 and discovering people for the first time. You're at a great stage in your life so live it up (carefully ;)!!!
2007-02-15 23:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by dee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly dont worry about your nerves, some lasses like it when your nervous because it shows you sincere, secondly how ever the question comes out is the best way to ask.
If you try and rehearse what your going to say then it wont come out right.
Just make sure she is on her own.
2007-02-15 23:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a date to "hang out." maybe you could go for a walk together or something. don't go for anything like a movie, you don't wanna scare her off. just something simple. then just be confident the entire time. girls like that. then just have a conversation with her and see where that goes. if its good then ask. if worse comes to worse hopefully you could still be friends. its all good.
2007-02-15 23:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by kariownsyouall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Down a pint of the best ale you can find. Then ask her, "Is there something between us. I know I have feelings for you, do you feel the same?" It will work, just try not to barf on her.
2007-02-15 23:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by Chris R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U missed the valentines day!!!any way Talk to her in private and ask...make up ur mind for any kind of response...Dont forget to take a flower wid u...
Good Luck !!!!
2007-02-15 23:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell how you feel and ask if she feels the same.
2007-02-15 23:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you have the right idea, pull her to side...be straight, and don't put any pressure on her. :) Good luck!
2007-02-15 23:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st you ask this question to your heart and then to her
2007-02-15 23:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by naiju t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup you should ask her directly
2007-02-15 23:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel
2007-02-15 23:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by wassup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋